Ok my friend got married the other day. But here is the problem my ex boyfriend was going to the wedding also. My husband didn't want me to go without him even though he works away from home and we could not afford for hiom to come home and take time off for a wedding for the day to a person he has only meet once and I have known my whole life. if was a small wedding and my ex was going to be there. would you want your wife to go without you or am I over reacting. I wanted to go alone for one we have three kids and i have not had a day away from them in three years and wanted to go so i could be there for her and kind get a break from the kids. nothing to do with my Ex. anyway woman wuld you have gone without your husband or kids. It turned out I couldnt go anyway oldest had prome night and I would have not made it back in time to be here for him so I stayed but would you and what would you have done? thanks for the answers
2007-10-03 22:10:24 · 6 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all my wife would have wanted me to go
with her in this situation, why because she is my
wife and she loves me. Second ex or no ex, it
would have been just that another person in the
crowd: When two people are married, nothing or
no-one can intervene, and sometimes folks make
up excuses as to why this or that. Not to imply that
you were, however there are some out there that
do .
2007-10-03 22:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by RudiA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have went. hubby sounds kind of jealous/insecure. Why have you not had a day/night off from kids? Your husband needs to be more trusting, he also needs to watch the kids now and then while you go out with friends!! You need some time out of the house. Are you happy at home ALL the time? btw im a guy
2007-10-04 07:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by cja752003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, how big of a deal is it? If it really upsets your husband, isn't it better to just not go. Was this you best friend in the whole world? Is it really more important to you than your husband. Is he insanely jealous all of the time? Is it destructive to your marriage? If this is not a regular thing, he probably has a reason.
Personally, I wouldn't have gone without him. Marriage is about compromise. Compromise means not always doing what we want for the sake of someone else's feelings.
2007-10-04 08:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a break hun. Yeah I would have gone alone, Does your hubby not trust you just cause your ex waz going?
2007-10-04 05:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not miss a wedding just because of an ex! that is rediculous...ever heard of trust? come on already!
2007-10-04 06:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have gone alone .
2007-10-04 05:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by gloria b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋