I am not pretty. (I'm female) Lots of people tell me I'm completely plain. Some even said my face is ugly. I hardly have any curve in my body and my breasts are small (A cup) I carry more fat in my waist than in my hips (Yuck! belly fat is so gross. it's gorgeous to carry fat in the butt, hips, and thighs) I am a total mental case now. Should I think of myself as neither male or female- because no guys like me and whenever I try to act sexy- guys insult me and they call me ugly? People are cruel you know. I have violent thoughts about this and I repress them so I won't start killing them.
2007-10-03 20:10:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
I wish I could be sexy but whenever I try to act sexy I get insulted
2007-10-03 20:12:09 · update #1
Ignore the guys, everyone is different, some people take longer to grow and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just keep trying, exercise and eat right. The guys that insult you are not ones who would make good husbands anyways, so dont feel bad about them. Just think of it as a way to root out the bad guys, a real man will never disrespect a woman.
2007-10-03 20:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by applebeer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, just because you don't have the curves you would like doesn't mean you are any less female. I'm not sure of your age but a woman gets curvier as she ages. So, if you're young you have nothing to worry about there as you will continue to blossom. Just because a guy doesn't like you doesn't mean you are not feminine. Let me tell you something about big boobs. When a woman gets older they sag! So if you are just an A cup you will look younger when you are older. I know this from experience. Don't try to act sexy. Just be yourself. It will all come naturally once you relax. Fix your hair or get it styled at the salon. Paint your nails and toenails. These are a good pick me ups. Start an exercise program and eat right. This will impove your body shape and self esteem and you will feel physically better. Good luck and cheer up!
2007-10-04 03:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by ang11222 . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being sexy is not all there is to attracting the opposite sex. If that is what you project that is all they will see (and of course all they will see you are good for).
Some guys are attracted to women with smaller breasts and as far as the stomach goes, there is not gut that can not be affected by sit-ups and/or crunches.
Modesty is an attractive (and what I would call sexy) quality. Just work with what you have and work at what you can. If your young and still growing then know that the face the body and mind all change throughout the years.
If you are older then you should realize by now that its time to work out a new strategy to get what you want.
Whatever the case is, don't let others discourage your efforts to present yourself in the best light you can and to be confident about who you are INSIDE.
Good Luck
2007-10-04 03:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your are a beautiful person inside and out.You should be proud to be a woman after all men need us you dont think they can do anything by them self.?lol
but if you dont feel good in your own skin then maybe you could get breats implants up to a high b or a low c cup.
If you dont have the money to do so you could by some fake breats at a store try victoras secret.
You could change your hair cut or color or both.
But just remember that you are who you are for a reason.And when those guys make fun of you just tell your self that they arnt good enough for you.And by the way they arnt.
I really hope this helps
2007-10-04 04:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to sound really lame, but beauty does come from within. I am not thin, nor do I consider myself pretty, but I have a lot of self confidence. I try to exude that to other people. You can't always please everyone else. If you are happy with yourself, it comes through in the way you carry yourself. Just keep this in mind: there are always going to be people who are prettier, skinnier, smarter, etc. Everyone is different, and that is what makes life interesting. Just be yourself, change the things that you can, and accept the things that you can't change. You will be much happier at the end of the day, and you may be surprised at how differently people see you.
2007-10-04 13:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Yvonne F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you doing all you can to make the most of yourself. Sounds like you need some guidance, beauty therapist,to learn how to bring out your best features and downplay the not so good, gym instructor to get rid of belly fat. Start working on these and I'm sure you'll feel more confident which is what you seem to need.
2007-10-04 03:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by nannajude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not stated Your age or nationality. These two factors may well be vital in helping others to answer Your question. Personally I do not bother with 'looks'. You are WHO you are and not who You look like! Be a beautiful person rather than being one of the 'Beautiful People'.
2007-10-04 03:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's clearly from ur your question that those people you wish be look like them they seem from inner like an ugly creature so give to yourself a chance to know realy what you wan't to be and then it's not bad to worke in your body slowly and affectively
2007-10-04 03:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋