Have you ever shared too much of your feelings with someone, then you felt like an idiot? What did you do to recover?
2007-10-03 17:27:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yep...you live and learn....
you can say something to them like, " you know i was just so caught up in my emotions that i probably shared a little too much and i feel like an idiot...i'm sorry" or you can just leave it be and not say too much next time
when you're honest and vulnerable, people tend to respond to that well....
2007-10-03 17:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by saraJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened over and over again through different jobs I have had through the years. I would start a job, thinking I was not going to fall into that same trap of opening myself up by sharing my feelings with people and letting them know too much about my personal life and past. Then I would do it over and over again, thinking I could trust certain people. Then over and over again, no matter which job I was at, someone would end up using that information to somehow "stab me" in the back. I would feel let down--but by myself. I would be mad at myself for doing that again and for being so stupid to let my guard down again, over and over, knowing fully well, from past experiences that this would most likely be happening again. I recovered each time, because I am a strong person and I am a SURVIVOR!
2007-10-04 00:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeap..7 years of love, giving my soul n energy to a person that got rid of me cos he wanted to change his life for good.. I was there 4 him in bad moments with all my heart.. LET TIME TO HEAL YOU, IT WONT BE LONG TILL YOU NOTICE THAT U R BETTER OFF WITH HOW THINGS TURN OUT. don't feel like an idiot.. its not worth it. be strong at the moment. time n new friends n people helped me to recover.. still recovering... at 1st i thought i would be sad 4 all of my life,now im happy.. Make a deep search inside you,find ur self n then go forth.
2007-10-04 00:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by napoli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... several times in my life.. it all depends on the reaction they give me when I share my feelings with them. If they give me a positive reaction, there is no reason to feel like an idiot. If they give me a negative reaction, I feel hurt, but do my best to move on. Life's too short to have to worry about what others are constantly thinking about me.
2007-10-04 00:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by chtnawy2dy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah me and my friend [Friends since 7th grade] would talk about everything she'd tell me alot of things and I would do the same with her. I told her almost all of my secrets...One day she started hanging out with a girl that I hated and she laughed at me in front of my face with her new friend. Turns out she told her new friend almost everything about me! I was soooo crushed all I could do was cry. I left a BIG opportunity and practically ruined my education for her! She still tries to make conversation with me but I only respond to her questions and thats all...I can't believe she picked such a beeyotch over me...
2007-10-04 00:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Powerpuff [thinks ur cute] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i share too much. BUT, i don't feel like an idiot.
so, nothing special to recover.
2007-10-04 10:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by simonyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep and by hiding for forever and never leaving the house again. Or I got over it with time lol.
2007-10-04 00:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by Perfectwings 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that happens to all of us at one point or another. Anyone who says it doesn't has a short memory. Which brings me to my next point, the only one who will remember it for long is you. Don't worry about it. We all have to vent sometimes.
2007-10-04 00:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by thinkaspell 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i always reserve something for myself. so even if i gave too much, i know i can still recover. that is the way it should be...you should be solely responsible for you own recovery.
2007-10-04 00:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by ericka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I laid my soul out for this guy, and told him things I wouldn't tell anyone else, and he just led me on. I wish people wouldn't do that to me, but you never know who you can trust. I just have to be more guarded in the future.
2007-10-04 00:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by ☮Witty Sarcasm♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋