why some withers so SOON..........?
2007-10-03 15:56:47 · 41 answers · asked by enki 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
The problem with the flower of love is
that we focus too much on the flower instead of the seed.
Sure a rose will wilt in time and die
but a new rosebud will take its place.
A cut flower withers in the vase.
You can't expect love to be the flower you enjoy if you remove it from its life source.
Plant a rose seed and take care of it, nurture
it, feed it, put hard labour into cultivating it.
Then you can slowly watch it grow from a tiny
seedling to a full grown rose bush.
It is then that a flower will reward you with its blooms, time after time
eternally......:-)
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2007-10-03 20:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Banshee 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wow. This seems at first a little difficult. But I'll give it a try.
Love isn't always in full bloom, nor does this indicate one thing or another. Love is constantly evolving; it's just as beautiful when green, before budding, & after full bloom, as it goes through the natural process, retains its beauty.
But--a flower that withers. Was it weak at the start? Was it well nourished? All things loved must be tended; when neglected, they are difficult to revive. Perhaps the flower was never intended to bloom--for anyone?
Why would love wither from "temptation"?
2007-10-07 17:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is really a mystery to us, & we are prevented from seeing the all of it by a veil. Yet what we see here is not an end but a beginning. When we see withering we can take comfort in knowing that a new bloom will soon appear, just beyond that veil. Sometimes the flower has brought so much beauty to others that they have earned the right to never have to wither again, so they wither one final time here & bloom in another place where they will never wither again. (((((HUG)))))
2007-10-04 03:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No not always like a flower love can only bloom when it has the right balance tha provides it to live and grow and bloom. a flower needs the right amount of care given to it not too much not too little, in between the two a healthy balance is what makes it bloom so beautiful and full. It is the same with love, you have to have the right balance too space but yet time together to live and breathe, to grow and to out reach. Some love will wither because it is not cared for properly or like a flower who gets too much water a love can be smothered if there is no freedom. I like this question enki , it is light and heavy but always soft and beautiful. You have a way with questions my friend.
2007-10-03 16:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by fire and ice 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If love was a flower it will not always have that full bloom affect until it is hit with that one of a kind water that nutures and will not let it wither. Okay lets stop talking analogies here. Its like this love does not always bloom you will always need to have the right treatment to make it long lasting. Love does wither because at times we are not in the best position to stay with that person forever......we tend to need things that we expect other people to give us, and when we find a person to give it to us that is when we begin to bloom.
2007-10-03 16:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some withers so soon because it doesn't have enough love and affection which is like having no water and soil. Love is like a flower. You need somebody for a support and foundation. In order for a flower to fully bloom they need care like love. They need affection attention. Without that life or flower will wither away when it doesn't have it's key components in life.
2007-10-08 07:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love does not always full bloom.
There are times, as with a flower, that it closes its blooms up to take a rest when it isn't getting the sun or water that it needs.
The ones that wither so soon are the ones that didn't get that nourishment.
Nothing can live without nourishment needed to sustain it. Even if it is poor nourishment.
2007-10-03 21:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Tigger 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It does not all ways bloom. Quite recently I had a bad experience with that and it didn't work out. I gave the proper amount of time and nothing happened. We both just agreed to be friends. some wither so soon because they are just not meant to be.
2007-10-03 16:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love, can be many things you want it to be, when you meet or already have, met that someone special,all things on Earth is extremely beautiful. But sometimes when you get to know the person you thought was it, for you, and all the imperfections, she has start to come out, is when that Love, or let's say the flower start to wilt. A Flower or Rose,is beautiful when is cut., and placed on a Vase, but it will wilt after being on the Vase,for at least a Week, by adding fresh water to it. All Flowers wilt, and won't last long. But Love on the other hand if it is True Love will withstand everything, and will stay solid like the Rock of Gibraltar. I am proof of it.
2007-10-04 02:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if love is a flower, tend to its need or it will no longer exists. Many flowers bloom, and many wither. But to compare love to flower is the worst mistake. If the flower blooms, sooner or later it will die. and if it withered in the beginning it wasn't ment to be.
2007-10-03 16:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋