Every women I have met in my life only seems to talk to me when they want something. Everyone women I have asked out says no eventually. What I mean by this is I have had women say "I am not looking for a boyfriend" and then they have one the next month. The lying the head games. I just can't stand it anymore. I used to have a lot of respect for women but thats pretty much out the window. How do I fix this?
2007-10-03 14:22:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
All men are *******.
All women are insane.
Men are ******* because they are dating insane women.
Women are insane because they are dating ****** men.
2007-10-03 14:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm saddened to hear of the problems you are having with women. I know it's frustrating. Once (years ago), a fellow asked me out, and I responded similarly to these women: "I am not dating." Soon after, I met "Mr. Right," and Guy #1 responded as you did. I wasn't playing a head game or lying. It was an honest response. How was I to know that Mr. Right was just around the corner for me? I felt awful, but that didn't change my situation or the Guy#1's feelings. These things happen. When you meet Ms. Right, things will be very different. Don't lose respect for women overall and risk missing out on the one who will love you like no one else could, simply because she is the right one. As for the users, they aren't even in your league, so be glad you've identified them before you gave your heart away. I wish you well in finding your dream lady.
2007-10-03 21:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by reap100 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You've been meeting the wrong kind of women and they've probably seen you're not the guy they are looking for. There's really nothing you can do to "fix" it, but remind yourself to keep an open mind. There's plenty of successful couples out there in the world and all this came by via patience and luck, as well as good timing. Some people don't find "the one" till they are in their late 30s or so.
Romance isn't something that can be forced or pressured, unless you want to suffer the bad consequnces. If its meant to be, it will be.
2007-10-03 21:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lighthouse 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude, you are obviously not connecting with women you are pursuing. I've been there myself. You need to either take an honest look in the mirror and look for ways to spruce up (yes, it's superficial, but it counts).
Also, consult a sister/sister-in-law/female friend/someone who can be honest with you and ask them if there's any negatives that you are projecting that you don't realize.
then, of course, you can analyse whether you are pursuing the wrong type of women. There may be some you've tuned out that like you as you are.
good kluck, my friend!
2007-10-03 21:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're just having some bad luck right now
dont give up,
trust me, you'll find someone
get over a chick you hate
2007-10-03 21:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I hope this isn't a lead in to becoming a serial killer.
2007-10-04 02:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by jaxson 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have just met smart women. Don't take it personal
2007-10-03 22:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋