my sisters girlfriends sister i here is going over the curb?

Question

now this girl is 15 and i hear from her sister who chats to my sister, my mum and me that she getting very cheaky, bad and that and hanging in the asbo crowd and alot of other stuff, she has a boyfriend who is 18, she wont listen to anyone and being a ***** to. also she doesnt care if she goes into care and i hear now nad then that she try to push her farther to hit her because when she does she will call the police but he wont.

now this girl likes me from what i hear and from what i see she does but i dont get involve because she way to young for me but as she does fancy me maybe she might listen to me if i ever talked to her alone, i dont want to have ago at her but try to her see ence if she continues down this road, you see my sisters girlfriend is sweet as pie, i dont want her sister to end up in a juvanile detention centre because if she ends up going down this road thats where she going to be till her 21 birthday and she'll probably be worse even after that. i want to help

this girl, any advice on how i can do this.

this girl does this because she thinks is cool and wants this gang to think she cool

any advice you can give me that could get through to her if i do this, do you think i should do this because the family is running out of options and if theres any words of advice that you know that will help me to say to her that you think will get through to her then ill be greatful to here it

please i need to help this girl

Answer 1

its good that you want to help this girl.....but if she does really fancy and like you you will have to tread very carefully...while you want to become her friend in order to help her....she may be reading much more into it....and in the end you may unintentionally do more harm than good, she may well decide to change her ways for you...but ultimately she has to change for herself...and this is what you have to make her realise.

let her know you are around if she needs a friend to chat to, and be there for her if/when her lifestyle leads her into something she cannot handle, but please make it clear it is friendship only you are offering
good luck

Answer 2

All you can do is try, but don't be surprised if it doesn't make a difference.

But maybe you should try a different approach. Instead of telling her all about where she's going if she continues, try to ask her why she's doing it. I'm sure everyone in her family has warned her and threatened her and promised all sorts of consequences. But maybe nobody has tried to find out any reasons.

Good luck.