2007-10-03 13:27:38 · 30 answers · asked by chevyguy8807 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would wait until after college if i were you.
There's nothin wrong with waiting because your going to be sorry if you rush into something like this.
2007-10-03 13:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, too young. Part of being ready for marriage is being mature enough to realize your elders really do know what they're talking about, listen to them! You've barely graduated high school and should really wait until you're finished with college and establish yourself with a home and carreer and make sure you're both mature enough and want the same things as far as kids and the future. At 18, most people really have no clue who they are or what they want out of life. You might think you do, but anyone over 30 would tell you there's a HUGE difference between 18 and 25-30.
2007-10-03 20:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by <3 My RooBear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are too young. I don't recommend marriage until the age of 30. You need to live on your own, do your own thing, find out who you are and what you want in life. When you get married it is until death do you part and that is a long time, so live a little first!
2007-10-03 20:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep...i think you are not ready yet. Marriage much difficult than lovers. Why?cos you have someone to take care,find a job (USD250 a month wont be enough), buy a car, must ready to be a father. Handle a baby different than handle a kid ya know? Also, lots got divorce when marry at this age when they can't handle those things. They only think of sex, thats why they marry at this age (17-20). Thats only my opinon, if you are ready to handle those things it won't be a problem if you want to. Well, congratulations.....
2007-10-03 20:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ong C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 18, and u have a lot a maturing to do for awhile. when u get 25, u might feel different. and u dont want to make a lifelong commitment and not see it through. wait a few more years to see if u two last.
and no, i am not an oldy saying u gotta mature, i am only 19, and i still have much maturing as well. no way i would make a lifelong commitment i might change my mind about in a few years.
2007-10-03 20:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by lirpa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having married at the age of 20, I would say yes. You still have a lot of growing to do and the two of you may grow apart. Considering your age and the length of dating, I would say that you are high school sweethearts.
However, if you decided to get married, try not to have children right away.
2007-10-03 20:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by racinaba 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not too young to get married. The real question is are you mature and ready for the committment of what marriage really is? You may feel like you are 'in love', but when you are married, being 'in love' is not the reason. Marriage is the committment to care, take care of, sacrifice unselfishly, believe in, confide in, share your thoughts, dreams, hopes, failures, sins and accomplishments, to give of yourself when you have nothing left to give, to put someone before yourself and to make yourself belive the other person WILL do the same. Can you truly say to yourself, I will take care of the other person if they become sick or physically incapable of taking care of themselves? Are you looking at her with your heart or with your eyes? Have you shared with her your deepest and darkest fears and desires? No, you are not too young. But are you mentally and emotionally ready for marriage? Good luck
2007-10-03 20:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by lipsnhips6969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not. not if your in love. like true love. if you can see each other growing old and makeing a family together your not to young at all. and if you do get married and have a few rough patches, dont just get a divorce because marriage is all about trying to make things work. Whats marriage if its perfect? alot of people think that 18 is too young to get married but if you really love someone then you should beome one. people in the early 1900's and 1800's got married young and they always lived happily ever after. i say go for it! goodluck!!!!
2007-10-03 20:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are a little young but if you want to get married that's fine just be prepared to find out things about your g/f that are going to annoy you and if you want everything to work out, you'll have to get over those things.
2007-10-03 20:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by *bAdHaBiT* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I highly recommend cohabitation for a few years before marriage simply because living with someone definately changes things.
2007-10-03 20:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by lostandfound 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you can take the responsilities as a father?dont be hurry of getting married your too young..just finish your studies first and have a good job..love can wait..just hold on wait for the right time not now..enjoy life...gudluck...
2007-10-03 21:18:35 · answer #11 · answered by mariecris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋