My name is Lauren and I am 14 years old and am a freshman in High School. I am blonde, and I have big boobs from what all of my friends, and the boys say. I am a size 36 C. All of the boys at my school say that I should work at Hooters, or become a Playboy Bunny. I don't know what to do to not be called Little Miss Playboy Bunny, or Hooters Girl. All of my friends are jealous of me because I have a really hot boyfriend, have big boobs, and that a lot of boys like me. How can I get ride of some of the nicknames that people have given me? I don't mind them really, but when guys feel you up everyday it gets annoying. Please help me!!!! My parents are never home so I can't talk to them!!
2007-10-03 13:20:41 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am almost a D though and am still growing.
2007-10-03 13:25:43 · update #1
This is not a blessing. They look at you for only one thing. You have to change this, or the names will never stop. #
2007-10-03 13:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, Im 14 Years Old And Im A Freshman And I Also Have Size 36c Boobs....The Thing To Do Is Not Let Guys Feel You Up Or Talk To You The Way They Do. Show People Who You Really Are...On The Inside. Make Friends With People You Normally Woudlnt Talk To And Just Expand Your Friend Circle. I Don't Know How To Get Rid Of The Nicknames But When Someone Calls You By These Nicknames Just Tell Them Straight Up That You Don't Like To Be Called That. And If They Dont Stop Make A Big Scene And They Should Stop. Oh..Yeah And This Isn't My Yahoo Account...Its My Brothers..So If You Were Wondering Why A Guy Was Giving you this Info...Well It Was Just His Sister..Lol...Hope Everything Goes Well!!
2007-10-03 13:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, you should feel lucky.. most girls would kill for those! but secondly, i feel your pain as I was in the same situation in high school and to tell you the truth, i wanted cute, sporty boobs....
the only way you can stop the nicknames or give them less meaning is to be "innocent" don't give them any reason to refer to you as a "dirty name"
and for gosh sake, don't let guys feel you up everyday! That is reason enough for some of those names! That is sexual harrassment and no one should be doing that.
Basically, if you play the part, the names will continue and will be pretty true, if you don't play the part, the names will minimize because they "just don't fit" the sweet innocent girl you are. YOU CHOOSE!
2007-10-04 04:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rossy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, 36 C is average.
It used to be 36 B, but due to larger natural breasts and breast implants, it's gone up a cup size.
Don't let guys feel you up. They're disgusting little pervs and crime is NOT acceptable.
And probably everybody isn't all that jealous of you. Stop being so narcissistic. You know having a larger chest than some of your classmates isn't all it's cracked up to be, so be more humble.
Stand up for yourself but don't be rude about it, and give it some time. You're average...soon, you'll be among other women your size and you won't care and people won't make those kind of comments.
2007-10-03 13:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If someone is feeling you up, you need to tell someone--school, parent, or someone along those lines. If someone is forcing themselves on you, you need to put a stop to that! As far as the nicknames, unfortunately they will most likely just move on to someone else. In the mean time, laugh it off and don't let it bother you. Dress conservatively if it makes you feel better, but don't change your whole life for these people. Things will get better and you won't always be teased. They are just jealous!
2007-10-03 13:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Moose 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Definately know what that is like. Tell the girls atleast you have them and tell the guys to go say that to their mother and then say it to you. Or ask them if they are upset the don't have boobs of their own. Point is they will shut up. On the plus side having a big chest helps you get out of a speeding ticket when you start to drive.;)
2007-10-03 14:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Immature punks! By the way these boys sound, it sounds like you are still in middle school. HOPEFULLY they will mature by high school but the bad news is that some of them never will. Well, i'm 16 and a 34dd and about 110-115 pounds so yeah i know what it feels like but I got my respect!!! You have to earn your respect from boys and show them who is boss. If you tell them to stop in a giggly whiney voice they will keep doing it. When boys try to touch me i grab their hands, SCRATCH and look them into their eyes and tell them to stop. You should be serious if you want respect. You shouldn't have let these boys disrespect you from the beginning but its never to late to stop.
2007-10-04 12:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theyre just jealous cause ur prettier than them. if theyre too big u may need to get a breast reduction in the future cause they may cause back problems, but if u dont have back problems u shouldnt let some stupid people affect ur decision. now if u want u can give me their address and i will personally beat the crap out of them :D seriously id enjoy it hahaha (not kidding though) or if u want just take a good look at them and find their weak spot and they make fun of them and humiliate them til they cry. it mean but it works. and if theyre ur friends u should just be honest and tell them that it really hurts u, and they will understand :) bye and good luck ;)
ps: i know i use too many smiley faces but i think they really help u get wat im saying
2007-10-04 06:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by im2stupiddotcom_AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well done on the weight loss!! I wish i could do that! As for bras... I'm a 34F. The one brand which i have found which always fits me perfectly and has a good selection if Freya. Bravissimo also do larger cup sizes. You can get larger cup size bras/sports bras and nice bekinis is Debenhams, Marks & Spencers, House of Fraser etc. Still... most of my underwear and swimwear is by Freya, as they fit well and look good. Good luck.
2016-05-20 03:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by shawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lauren,
Just consider it as a gift or as an asset. Just ignore those who are always teasing you, they are just trying to get your attention. Be proud, some of the ladies would have their boobs enlarged or augmented because they think that what they have is not enough. Stay cool :)
2007-10-03 13:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by anime0n3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound harsh, and personally I don't care if i get a thumbs down, but by the way you describe th situation well....you seem like a hoe and a attention whore. No offense (even though you will probably take it offensively) but you say you have a hot boyfriend, everyone is jealous of you, you don't mind the perverse names, and you let guys feel you up? How would that sound if you were listening to someone else say it?
2007-10-03 13:26:57 · answer #11 · answered by ~♥~K~♥~ 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋