what can i do? i ahve to be around them very soon.
2007-10-03 11:24:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Perhaps you should investigate why you have these irrational feelings? You surely realize there is nothing this other person does that can make you "feel" any way at all, it is your own personal reaction to them and your interpretation to their perceived actions. If you don't want to feel that way, then stop. And what is wrong with living for pleasure? How dull it would be not to have any pleasure in your life.
2007-10-03 11:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, we've all been there. There are plenty of people that I despise being around but I must because I have no choice. This is just one of those things in life that you can't avoid. Sorry, but you'll just have to try your best to ignore the person and try to make the best out of the situation.
2007-10-03 11:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Skelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to grow up. There's a person like that in everyone's lives, whether by choice or not. Be the better person. You don't have to be friends with them, just be cordial.
2007-10-03 11:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms prepare them the kindness that has been lacking of their lives. perhaps take a dozen cookies, freshly baked to furnish them a handle. The kindness speaks for itself in each chew. human beings on the instant do no longer generally get entangled with every person of their neighborhoods anymore. you are able to stay around the corner to somebody and wave severe once you notice them. yet do you even know their call? Even after 8 years or ten years of residing around the corner? it particularly is all too primary. There are additionally too many forgotten souls that have been shoved to the facet, by ability of their households for one reason or yet another. they'd stay on my own. Or they'd have a much better half. yet existence has taught them hardness and strife, and that is not undemanding to muster up smiles anymore. So those are the incredibly in want of a stable deed or kindness that any neighbor can amplify to them. And we are shifting into that component of three hundred and sixty 5 days, the place we are reminded of those souls who handle the vacations like another day. perhaps they have no family contributors to return by ability of and notice them. or perhaps their households are too busy with their very very own lives to amplify their very very own palms to assist in some way. no longer everybody would properly be blessed with households to spend a trip with. Or have a present to open on Christmas. And it particularly is oftentimes that kind of man or woman who would not prefer charity. they say they in basic terms prefer to be on my own. yet that's no longer authentic. So this trip season, go out of your thank you to declare a delightful, chuffed Thanksgiving, or a Merry Christmas, and recommend it, to all you notice. For it would in basic terms make their day a splash brighter. And in case you are able to invite them in to proportion some warm drink do it too. you are able to in basic terms make a clean pal!
2016-10-06 01:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by geissel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of people like that. the world is full of them. try to occupy yourself with something while they are around
2007-10-03 13:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a few beers then you can be an azzhole too.
MIKE
2007-10-03 11:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by mike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be haten
2007-10-03 11:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by highriselather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋