Ok i share joint custody with my exwife but she is the custodial parent who i pay child support to. I get my son every other weekend.The problem is i need to go away on a work issue and need to switch weekends with her but she has "plans" and refuses to help me out. My question is can she "legally" make me get my son that weekend? I have asked everyone i know to help me out but no one can watch him and i can't take him with me. The only problem i see is we signed in our custody agreement what days we would be responsible for.Can she still hold me to it?
2007-10-03 09:16:04 · 6 answers · asked by jim f 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Since I don't have a copy of your order in front of me, the best I could do is guess. Read the order. If you don't understand it, go see a lawyer.
2007-10-03 09:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by davidmi711 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
relies upon on the state, yet frequently i'd say which you're SOL. My ex switched weekends on me continually till she ultimately purely refused visitation till she mandatory a sitter that weekend. Did she violate the custody contract and visitation rules. specific. Did the judicial device do something approximately it? Hell no. She tried to get an strengthen in help, did not get it, then tried to declare that i grow to be in the back of in order that as that she could get an added 20 a week for arrearages. wager what. they did not even examine! I have been given a observe interior the mail that i grow to be going to pay yet another 10 funds a week and that there would be a lien located on my components till i grow to be caught up. I had to take an afternoon without work of paintings to bypass from one room, to a diverse splendid around the corridor to tutor my fee documents to the prosecutor to cease all this. They do not something approximately visitation because of the fact that's not a controversy that gets them re-elected.
2016-10-20 22:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh. I SO don't miss these days! If it's your weekend and you don't take him, I suppose she can make a fuss over it, but the courts aren't going to listen to her whining if she makes too big of a legal fuss over it. Work is a legitimate excuse. Playing footsie with a new love interest is not. It is sad when people use the children and the visitation arrangements to make the other parent miserable. I hope that someone is able to come through for this child and take care of him this weekend.
2007-10-03 09:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Aiden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she can. Your only "saving grace" is remembering this when the conditions are reversed. The rules apply to both of you. You may want to remind her of this.
2007-10-03 09:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't find your answer here, try the site below and watch the movie clip. Hope this helps.
2007-10-03 09:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by citronge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess would be yes. Call your lawyer and ask.
2007-10-03 09:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋