if you do this too, what do you do that it's better next time? what do you think? it's getting me in a lot of trouble.. most of the troubles destroys myself and my life.
2007-10-03 02:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Don't worry, this one catches most of us out at certain times. the best answer you can give when someone invites you out or asks you to do something is "Mmmm let me think about it and get back to you." Then do just that. It gives you space to consider all aspects, list the pros and cons and then go back with a firmly made decision you won't want to back down on.
2007-10-03 02:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to relax before you make any major decisions. Decisions made in the heat of the moment, in anger, hatred, sadness, disappointment, or in a rush, tend not to be the right ones.
Secondly, if indeed it turns out that no matter how hard you try you still end up making the wrong decisions, then perhaps all you have to do is to constantly do the opposite of what you have decided.
Thirdly, if all else fails, perhaps it's time to accept that fate wants to drive you to a certain direction, and it's pointless to resist.
2007-10-03 09:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by jedimaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u will be desatisfied but hey u will learn from ur mistake. That is how I learned making my decisions. Make a decisions that u know that u won't get into trouble
2007-10-03 10:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Jesus to help you with your decisions and try to make your decisions based on the way the Bible tells us all to live.
Remember Jesus will forgive us all for mistakes and He doesn't expect us to be perfect, just to try our best to do what is right. Always remember Jesus loves you, and no matter how bad it gets Jesus is always there to help you when you ask. You have a great future.
2007-10-03 18:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by mountainclass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont spend so much time second guessing what you did... just get on to the next troubling and life destroying decision....
does it really matter
2007-10-03 10:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i make many wrong desisions and often get in trouble. i think about something before i do it and STILL get in trouble. if your hangging around the wrong crowd, wacth your back, they could turn on you. but its your life and YOU decide how you live it. maybe yahoo answers isn't what you actully need.
2007-10-03 09:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋