I know technically we don't "work"?

Question

Hi everybody,

I'm a cancer girl with a gemini rising and my boyfriend is an aquarius with a scorpio rising. Supposedly Cancer and aquarius don't work because I'm reall emotional and he's too aloof. Which is kind of true... we argue a lot but as drama free as i like to be we're still together so i guess we like the drama. i tried to figure out if our rising were compatible but apparently gemini and scorpio aren't so hot together either... Is there any hope or what are some tips based on astrology that could help? Please no cutting and pasting... I've googled our signs extensively Lol I thought maybe someone just might know astrology pretty well and have some advice. We're both the youngest of our families, if that helps.

Answer 1

Yes, no, and maybe. A lot of help.
Use this one a lot. Still my favorite way to answer.

I got this from Eric Idle's (of Monty Python fame) book "Around the States in Eighty Days"
He wrote on day 51,

"It's my wife's birthday. I have now been with her more than half her life. Poor thing. She must be a saint. But a Scorpio. So watch it. According to that ridiculous bollocks called Astrology — a pseudo nonsensical science if ever there was one — Aries and Scorpios never get along. Well 26 years says crap. If people want to go on believing that the whole world is divided into twelve, based on astronomical observations that are two thousand years out of date, then that's up to them. The constellations are now no longer overhead in the same place as they are supposed to be and everyone knows the lowest peg on a newspaper and the first job they give to newcomers is writing the astrology column. Still people persist in believing in this nonsense despite all evidence, which shows mankind's urge to believe in something, no matter what, is very strong, and makes it easy for all those horrible men with bad hair in bad suits on TV to make their millions."

Answer 2

Your Sun in Cancer gets along well with his Scorpio Ascendant, and vice versa-his Aquarius Sun enjoys your Gemini Rising...but what's underneath? What signs are your Moon signs in? A woman's moon sign greatly influences her emotions on a daily basis, and a man's moon sign shows what type of woman he is attracted to, and the qualities he wants to be admired and appreciated for...

It is true that the Aquarian might be turned off by your 'clingy' side, but then his Scorpio rising...he wants to 'own' you basically. Your Gemini Rising, also needs as much freedom and space as his Aquarius Sun, and both want to be able to speak their minds freely, to roam, to think, play around with ideas, and those two are perfect for each other in the intellectual realm. It's a nice blend right there, his Water ruled Ascendant, with your Water ruled Sun, and the two air signs...it's a nice give and take and a nice flow...but the Moon signs play an important part, as well as where all the planets are and the houses they are highlighting in each other's charts.

Answer 3

actually you are total opposites with your sun signs, opposites attract. also you have a gemini rising which is compatible w/aquarius.His scorpio rising is compatible with your sun sign cancer. I am an aquarius with a scorpio rising. I cried when I found out but if he was any other rising sign he might be too aloof. Scorpio keeps him grounded. I just broke up with a cancer last year it sounds like you guys.lots of drama. great make up sex. you can have any sun sign and rising sign and have probs. I am back with my gemini ex....cancer boy(never knew his rising sign I think it was mean)was just too volitale. Technically if you want it to work it will, just takes more!!!! Good luck.

Answer 4

You have enough there to make it work. I am also a Cancer girl, but my rising is a Sagittarius, and I dated a Gemini who had a Taurus rising, we got along just fine. It was a great relationship. It's not so much that your rising signs aren't compatible, its the fact that your rising sign is compatible with his sun and visa versa. This is one of those relationships that need to be worked on but can be rewarding.
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Answer 5

WE both got bamboozled. I am also in a relationship just like yours. I am Capricorn with Sag rising and he is Libra with Virgo rising. I thought I had met a nice Virgoish person. I love a Virgo man. Then slap in the face it is a Libra. I have also googled and yahooed the living hell out of our signs, then I decided that since my rising sign was the one that was compatible with him to try to get more in touch with that side of me. I started to study more on Sag and see what in me identified with them and I cut down on alot of my Cappy ways that was destroying the relationship. I try to be more patient and take this relationship one day at at time. Which is hell for me cause I want to know where this is going and how we are all feeling and what about security. He seems to have a hard time decided what socks to wear. So my advice is just to get more comfy with your rising sign side and take it one day at a time .

Answer 6

duno me sis gemini and im scorpio dislike each other.

Answer 7

THAT STUFF IS A BUNCH OF CRAP....