How to stop worrying about what others think/?
2007-10-02 23:46:56 · 5 answers · asked by Elegance 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
First of all...
What are you and what are all of us?
HUMANS
So, then, why should we care so much about what others think of us? Who are they to judge us, when we could judge them also? Whatever filth we have, they have also.
What is important is not what others think, it's what you think. An ugly man who thinks that he is handsome will not believe those who tell him otherwise and so it is useless to insult them. For just like fear, our beliefs or faiths or principles in life are constructed in the mind. Whatever the mind conceives could be greater than life.
In short, just think that we're all humans. Or in a humorous bend, think that everybody's naked. TRANSPARENT...
2007-10-03 00:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking you are still in school and haven't parted ways with your friends yet. When you learn that the only one you carry along in this life and must look out for first before you have children is yourself than you will learn that all others of this world are temporary. If you like yourself, and you are polite but cautious with others, hang the world. Too many misfits who will prey upon you if they think you give a hang about their good opinion. All you should care about from others is if they treat you nicely, fair and with respect. If they don't let them worry about your opinion of them! And get rid of unpleasant people. Dare to find your own enjoyment and hobbies. Hobbies you can enjoy without others. Like your own company best and you won't feel afraid to be alone and stuck with manipulative people with opinions of you that are negative. If they really had a bad opinion of you wouldn't they just shut up and avoid you? So, why aren't they??? They don't need to be snotty and rude to anyone they don't approve of just leave that person alone. Believe me you will enjoy the solitude.
2007-10-02 23:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by sliverofmoon2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I basically just don't take notice of what other people think of me.. If they say something and it's not true, then who cares, regardless of what they say or think, I know who I am and what is true or not.. Just think about it that way =)
2007-10-02 23:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by KieKie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to the bad thing ppl say
only listen to compliments
dont put yourself down all the time
no negative thoughts, only positive
2007-10-03 00:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by MSO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea. If we dont care at all then what is to keep us from being sociopaths?
2007-10-02 23:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by C8H10N402 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋