If True, share your experience please.
How did you feel?
How did you get over the betrayal?
2007-10-02 23:15:54 · 20 answers · asked by What'd You Say? 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
True,
My husband made friends with this girl at work and introduced us, we all became good friends. They came over to our house and we went over to theres, (she was married) and we all hang out played cards and drank our kids also played together. She and I became really close until one day she asked my husband while at work if he would come over and have sex with her because her husband wouldn't be home that day. My husband stood up and called her every name he could think of. We both felt really betrayed by her. I'm just happy that I have a wonderful husband that I can trust. I'm very lucky as far as that goes. I wanted revenge , I was angry!!! I was upset!!! I cried!!!! But I was very smart about the whole situation.... Rather than causing more trouble than what she was worth I let her self destruct. I'm a firm believer that what you do in life will come back to you especially if you do horrible things to other people. And ofcourse I was right. That same month she got in trouble at work for asking another guy the same question, and he turned her in for sexual harrassment. She started sleeping with another man from work and ofcourse her husband caught her at his place, dragged her out by the hair of her head and beat the crap out of her. Now I wouldn't wish that on anyone no matter how much I despised them. But she got what she deserved. So in the end I didn't have to do anything she pretty much led her own self down a path of self destruction. She is now living with the same guy in a run down apartment.
No revenge is sweeter than watching someone as vindictive and manipulative as this woman ruin her own self.
Oh and to answer the second part of your question, I felt utterly destroyed when my husband told me what happened. I couldn't believe that she would do something like that. I confided in her on many occasions. I also felt a sense of relief that my husband was smart enough to recognize exactly how much trouble she was.
2007-10-02 23:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by beautiful tragedy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but then, who hasn't? I've also betrayed a friend.
I promised to do something for him and kept putting it off until it was too late. He forgave me, which makes him a bigger man than me, because I never forgave the one that betrayed me (not the same friend).
I got over it, I just never forgave.
I think the most important thing to decide is whether or not your friendship is worth salvaging after such a betrayal, and if it isn't to walk away from the situation with dignity.
2007-10-02 23:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by radhamon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True,unfortunately....by a few too,so the one that comes to mind is the biggest of them to me..My best friend from childhood let me down in many ways over the years,eventually I gave up trying to keep us together by initiating everything and ended the friendship after 35 years...I don't think I will ever get over it totally but I have moved onto a life without regrets and learned well from it..=)
(I know you wanted specifics but its just too personal & painful to recall it all,sorry)
2007-10-02 23:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When betrayed you move on with your life and find a new friend. There are tons of other people in the world, so why stay with the one who betrayed you? Just go on and find another friend and be happy.
Cheers
2007-10-02 23:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 05:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by saggio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, true!!!! =(
As soon as I got married, a lot of my "friends" began backstabbing me and saying bad things about myself and my new husband. Mind you, some of these girls didn't even know him. I tried to work on those friendships for over a year, but just couldn't stand the drama and I thought I deserved better friends who respected me and my life. So I ditched their @$$es. Best decision of my life.
2007-10-02 23:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was in Year 11 I wanted to invite this cute boy to the Deb ball. My best friend knew this but went ahead and asked him first. I was very upset but went to the Deb with another lovely boy. I got my revenge because this other guy brought his girlfriend along and spent most of the night with her. He he!
2007-10-02 23:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by pauliree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,,, my best friend went after my boyfriend, felt like killing her, I married him to get over the betrayal!!! Lasted 20 years. NOW she can have him!
2007-10-02 23:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by MissMonk 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
True, many times and no I won't share because I can't remember them all sorry.
I felt crap and pissed off at the world and humans.
Time healed my wounds and made me stronger.
It took alot of Time btw.
2007-10-02 23:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by ♆Şрhĩņxy - Lost In Time. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who hasn't?
Let down? Betrayed? Disilliusioned?
Dumped them. Found better friends.
2007-10-02 23:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋