2007-10-02 18:14:15 · 22 answers · asked by proofofignorance 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
* hugs *
2007-10-02 18:26:58 · update #1
The love of my life, Bill, was taken from me by cancer. We only had 7½ years together, not nearly enough, and he was way too young to die.
I am angry, at God, for taking him from me (forgive me, but it's true). I am angry at his family, for screwing me over and turning their backs on me. I am even angry at him, for leaving me like this, though I know it wasn't his choice.
He was always prepared for everything, though! If we went out of town, he prepared with as much care as if it were a mission to Mars! I can't believe he didn't prepare better for the end of his life, and what would become of me. Who could have seen it coming, though? He was still so young.
He expected if he died suddenly, his sister would see to it that I was taken care of. She promised to, and I thought of her as the sister I never had. I truly loved her. Then she took the money and ran, leaving me high and dry, with a stack of bills! She has plenty of her own, there was no reason for it.
I look forward to the day when she will have to face him and explain herself. I also look forward to the day when I will be with him again. I'm just biding my time, surviving as best I can, until then.
2007-10-02 18:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by baymast13 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First real trauma, watching my hub caught in a riptide and then drowning, with an 8 month old son in my arms. Getting a late night call from the police saying my dad had been murdered--he was not murdered but in another state and my little daughter was only 5 weeks old in the middle of the winter with snow on all the roads and ice. Then there was my mom and my stepdad both having heart attacks in the same week. A divorce from a man I really loved that was unfortunately beyond help. The loss of 5 wonderful friends all in the space of 6 months. guess that will do, there are more. If moving was a stress to me I would be dead as a door nail. I have moved 16 times in 16 years.
2016-04-07 01:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been the same since I had kids, my life was carefree, I could come and go when ever I wanted, sleep in on the weekends, eat out all the time, have parties, go on vacation when the mood struck me, take off and go to the lake to water ski or hang out on the boat, drive a IROC Z-28, wore size 7 jeans and a 34 B bra. Wear my hair long. Very simple little things in life that came to a end once the baby came, I am now 41 years old with 3 children and 3 step-children along with a step granddaughter. My hair is short because it's easier and faster to deal with. I drive a mini-van, I wear size 10 jeans and 38 C bra, Vacations are planned during the summer due to school. Boating is on the back burner because we can't enjoy boating with a screaming child. And I have to set a good example for the kids so no more wild parties. Going out to eat is a treat. And last but not least LOL @ sleeping in on the weekends!!! I wouldn't trade my kids for anything but my life did change big!
2007-10-03 01:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Flying w/ scissors 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
my last engagement. I have found that I am resistent to let anybody get close to me. I had someone actually tackle me in the hallway because I wouldnt look at him, and after laughing, it was a very hot move and I just laughed it off and then couldnt talk to him again...so even though I am over my ex-fiance we still talk but he dosent live here anymore and were not getting married or anything anymore. I dont know why I keep pushing others away, but that was when it started. Maybe I should just retire, I have been thinking of that lately. Close up shop and grow cobwebs, hehe...kinda sad but I could go back to school...not be so crazy with relationships. Anyway...I was going off into the woods on that one. Take Care.-Rachel.
2007-10-02 19:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd have to agree with Witherwings ☜♡☞ answer! Various members of my family have told me this! They even tease me about it! The thought of that is weighing very heavy on my heart! I guess it shows that I really need to spend more time with my family! I got a rude awakening from my aunt yesterday! She really gave me something to think about! I feel guilty as hell!
2007-10-03 04:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Oh, it's like that? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My younger sister died in a car wreck at 18 years old about 1 month before she was going to start college. I still miss her!
2007-10-02 19:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The kids grew up and moved out of state.
2007-10-02 18:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by EasyVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was diagnosed with major depression almost 10 years ago.
2007-10-02 18:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by Nico 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The libs started calling everything unconstitutional.
2007-10-02 18:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the affair (his) & lost bth my parents.
...thx for the hug(s)
(whats is yr specific life changing event?)
2007-10-03 00:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋