Why are women so turned on by groping their rear
I like it butt its just like hugging or kissing, general affection, it doesn't turn me on
Why do most women react so sexily to it and love to get spanked in the bedroom
It reminds me of an immature psychology, the bad little girl has to be punished by her betters (except once she has moved out and doesn't live with daddy anymore, its her partner in a relationship, admitting in a subconscious way men are powerful/superior and should be the deliverers of justice and punishment)
2007-10-02 17:28:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
its ridiculous people are bringing up sexual harrassment, thats just a protection against *unwanted* attention
if you are ugly/fat/nerdy you shouldn't do it and you will get in trouble
if you are good looking women will let you do it, this goes across several jobs and all different types of girls i have encountered, too much to be a coincidence
2007-10-02 17:34:41 · update #1
It's a tough life dude.
Man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.
2007-10-02 17:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
I think different women have different reasons. For me it is about the man having power and authority, I love a strong man who isn't afraid to take the lead and sadly there are few of those types left.
Far as men I don't know or barely know if they tried to grope or slap my butt or anything like that they are likely to get a face full of mace!
The difference being I don't want someone I'm not in a committed relationship with putting his hands on me.
2007-10-03 04:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Smile. I would never presume to give you an answer for the entire female gender, but personally I enjoy being lightly slapped during sex. It turns me on. Not as much as kissing and hugging, but I do enjoy it at the right moment. I also have no idea why. Sorry.
P.S. I would not try to analyze this, because if you do have to use sex to enforce your need for power / superiority over your partner, you should visit a psychiatrist right away.
2007-10-02 17:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by ms.sophisticate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls like this.......try this in the workplace. You'll get yourself fired real fast. If you are just talking about the bedroom, some like it, some don't, it's that simple. If a girl likes it, what's the problem, do you have a butt phobia on women? By the way, where did you get your facts of "most women?" Can you prove this with maybe some sort of internet link to an article or something? I can't believe that most do.
2007-10-02 17:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think you're referring to popular culture and images of women doing that? Or do women do that wherever you go? Because if it's something like a rap video or something, it's pretty literal in its reference. It really is like I am your biatch and you can smack me around all you want, and I'll keep taking it. It is reinforcing submission to a man's authority. But if you're talking about your sex partners, I have no idea why. What you say in the last paragraph is exactly why that behaviour is attractive to men--and because women know it's attractive to men, they do it.
Edit: Actually, what I meant to say was my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard.
2007-10-02 18:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by teeleecee 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im not saying all women are this way but a lot of women realy equate sexual activities to giving and recivieng power .
I like to kiss womans feet .Kissing a womans feet is heaven for me. A lot of women go he must be submissive or something . I dont pictire myself as being submissive.
I did describe something that got me banned 1 time so i wont describe it . Suffice it to say it is a sexual activity that women can ask questions about but if you are a man asking questions this sexual activity it will get you banned . Women percieve this activity as releiquishing power or being subservient . To us clueless neanderthals all we are thinking about is that the activity feels good . I dont think about dominating women with this sexual activiaty . I just feel good that i was given that wonderful gift by a women . She may have felt she was submitting or not ..i dont know . For me it had nothing to do with domminace and submission just the hedonistic pleasure of the sexual actitity.
AND NO I WILL NOT LIST THIS SEXUAL ACTIVITY AS A LOT OF WOMEN WILL AUTOMATICLY SAY HE IS A PIG AND HE WANTS TO DOMINATE WOMEN ...WHICH IS FARTHEST FROM THE TRUTH .I JUST ENJOY IT AND HOPES AND WANTS HER TO ENJOY IT MORE THAN I DO . IF IT MAKES A WOMAN HAPPY BECUASE SHE THINKS I AM DOMMINATING HER FINE . I WILL PLAY THAT ROLE .BUT IT IS NOT ABOUT POWER FOR ME IT IS ABOUT SENSATION . I WONT LIST IT BECAUSE IF I DO I WILL GET A VIOLATION AND A SUSPENSION BECUASE A LOT OF WOMEN THINK ITS ALL ABOUT POWER.
2007-10-02 18:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most/many women do enjoy being dominated in the bedroom. It's called PASSION. Man... ya gotta figure out what you like and what you don't, and then find someone with similar tastes. That's all. In my experience, a good crack on the azz is addin fuel to the fire... now...
WHO'S YER DADDY?!?!? SAY IT!!! WHACK!! YEAH... THAT'S RIGHT! WHACK!!!!
Geeze ppl... lighten up and have some fun too!
2007-10-05 11:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Zipperhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my most memorable expriences was spanking an 18-year old girl when I was well into my 30s.
Something about that young, supple skin that just gets my blood racing...
Troll Shark™ - Formerly Troll-Shark™
2007-10-02 18:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Cuz women like dominance, not violence, dominance. And when you whack a girls butt it shakes all her bits around and probly feels kinda good. Also, most women like a tiny bit of pain with their sex. At least thats what my GF told me to write.....
Also, I never heard of a guy who doesnt like womens butts.
2007-10-02 17:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
I've heard a lot of complaints about women but NEVER one like this. Dude- you trying to start another revolution?
2007-10-02 17:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you dropped the patronising attitude you might have a lot more fun.
2007-10-02 22:05:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋