hi,
ohk I met this guy.. it all started like this.. I went to a car dealership couple of days ago and purchased a brand new suv. The guy that was my salesmen was really nice and hot=] and I think we flirted quite a bit I'm not sure. I had to come back a couple of times to finish and do paperwork and every time I was there we talked, joked alot, he also touched my arm alot and stood really close to me. Then I had to bring my suv back in to get it serviced and everything. I went with him in my suv to get gas and he asked me all these questions about going out, hanging out, partying, what type of guys I liked, if i smoke/drink etcc..he then gave me his number and told me to call him sometime to "hang out..." but the catch is that he has a girlfriend.. I'm not a homewrecker and I'm not out looking to break or ruin someone's relationship so what do you think I should do?
2007-10-02 17:00:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
but the thing is....we really hitted it off and he was totally my type. damn its hard.
2007-10-02 17:07:55 · update #1
eh, just try it. maybe he wants to just PURELY hang out with you. maybe he just thinks you're cool. and if it turns out like you say it might, forget about him.
2007-10-02 17:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by super_bean 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time you are in the dealership to get your oil changed, pop your head in his office and tell him that you thought you would say hi while your car is getting worked on. Ask him if he is still with his girlfriend? If he says no, then tell him to be expecting a call from you. If he says yes, then say something like "darn, all the hott guys are taken." When and if he is single, he will think of you and give you a call. Otherwise, don't mess with another girls man.
2007-10-03 00:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the both of you can hang out...only if his girlfriend comes...That'll lessen the chance of his gf breaking up with him 'cause you personally invited her w/c would make no sense at all when you're trying to wreck someone's relationship.
2007-10-03 00:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. If your not a "homewrecker" then dont be one. Simply tell him you are aware of his relationship and that you would not want to be in a similar situation of being hurt.
If he does it to her he will do it to you. Keep your hook in the water and see what else bites.
Kman
2007-10-03 00:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by kmanfromga 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him if you feel that way. It's refreshing that you feel that way, and don't want to break up a couple. Keep your morals high and you will eventually meet the right guy for you at the right time.
2007-10-03 00:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by SpaceMonkey67 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. He is a salesman in more ways than, one.
His approach was, very unproffessional and, it is highly unlikely that, this is the first time that, He has used it.
Enclosed, find My address and, Phone #.
2007-10-03 00:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by ny21tb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would want to go out with a man you know is shopping for other women behind your back. if not throw away the #
2007-10-03 00:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Bruce S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult one. You have stated you are not a homewrecker and have answered your own question. Do you think he wants to be more than friends?
Speak with him and suss it out.
2007-10-03 00:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly the guy is a player & no one wants to be w/a player. Even if he dumper her to start seeing you, god knows how many other girls he's doing this to when he's at work.
2007-10-03 00:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take your vehicle somewhere else the next time it needs something, maybe even to another town if there is not another dealer where you live.
2007-10-03 00:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by supertop 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tear up the number and buy a hybrid.
2007-10-03 00:03:27 · answer #11 · answered by phovisi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋