I am 7 weeks pregnant, and the past few days I have been constantly angry or annoyed. Especially at my husband, I can't even stand the sight of him. Has anyone else experienced this?
2007-10-02 16:24:01 · 16 answers · asked by neo_soul_sister 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm rolling on the floor laughing....you poor thing, yes this is normal. not all women experience the dramatic mood changes, i did, i wanted to scatch the bastards eyes out, i was a ***** till about the 4 month then i turned into this serene, mellow, easy going, earth mother type, not me at all ! then i got a bit bitchy towards the end , my husband was wonderful though, patience of a saint. he let me be and didn't try to reason with me or anything like that, which was a wise move. the main thing is, you are aware that you are feeling like this and you can check yourself. you'll spend a lot of time in the next few months apologising. and trust me,soon your body is gonna find hubby the best thing since sliced bread, so he better watch out when the horny hormones kick in. good luck. maintain a sense of humour, its a MUST !
2007-10-02 16:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well Im not pregnant an I can't stand the sight of my hubby either. NAH Im just kidding, I miss him when hes at work. Anyways back to your ???. Your hormones are raging right now and most likely will be for the next 9 or more months. I am sure that he is not like being around you either. You 2 should try to find time to have fun together and take your mind off the regular life stresses. Have a scheduled date night at least 1x/week.
2007-10-02 17:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahahaha, i wish i could use pregnancy as an excuse.... i had a baby 5 months ago n still cant stand the sight of my husband. i hope u dont end up like we have. n yes it is normal with all the hormonal changes. more then likely u will start feeling better in about another 7 weeks or so. everyone is different so it would really be hard to tell
2007-10-02 16:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by amber32034 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes,,..... for like the first 15 weeks!!
Ha... the poor things have no idea what they have got themselves into! Every women is different, of course, but generally i found myself saying and doing things without even realising it. One night I realised what a b**** i had been, and got so upset, I pulled him aside and explained that it was not "me", and not to take it personally. I asked him to give me space, and to be patient as eventually it will subside and stop completely. I then tried my hardest (and still do at times) to think before i said anything, and look at him picturing our wedding day. It seemed to help with the angry outbursts.
I am now 31 weeks, and occasionaly have the same feelings. It will change... i was fine for a few months!
As long as your husband understands that this is a temporary situation, and is patient, it wont affect your relationship long term.
Good luck, and Congrats!
2007-10-02 16:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by minnietak 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh yes, those lovely hormones! Its normal to get upset or annoyed by your husbad. I was annoyed and I didn't even want to kiss or hug my husband the whole pregnancy. I was worried I didn't love him anymore but as soon as I gave birth I loved him more then anything like I did before I was pregnant. I loved him because he gave me my baby and I then knew how much he did for me throughout the pregnancy that I constently yelled at him for and poor guy didn't even get a kiss in almost 10 months! Yicks I was mean! But you are not the only gal out there who doesn't like her husband during pregnancy.
Good luck with the pregnancy
2007-10-02 16:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by abs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. My friend said she read somewhere that w/your hormones changing and such that your husband will be the first you cannot stand to look at, touch, have him touch or kiss or anything. I'm in the same boat. Everything he does annoys me and even him facing me while sleeping gets on my nerves. Also b/c of that we havn't had sex since June. Good Luck and it should pass by the time you have the baby. =o)
2007-10-02 16:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by shortysml 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You think you can't stand the sight of him now? Wait until he tries to be nice to you when you have labor pains!lol... Your hormones are kicking in and you probably aren't in the best of moods (which in turn makes him cranky). It will get better, I promise! Just try to be patient and try to laugh off your hormone madness! Good luck to you AND your hubby;)
2007-10-02 16:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what this can happen? Then how is he going to have sex because in all truth he will not like to have it with someone who can't stand him, eventually he will stray when another woman gives him more attention, and would it not be your fault for driving him away? Boy I am glad I am not your husband this whole situation stinks. Yep, if my gf gets pregnant and does such a rude thing to me I will completely take it personally and find solace and comfort in another woman who can stand the sight of me.
2007-10-04 17:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Whew! Welcome to pregnancy hormones! Ride it out for the first trimester, but watch out in the second because statistically speaking, most women have an increased libido during the second trimester. Then you'll get whammed with the third and be ready for it all to end ASAP! LOL
Yeah, you're just pregnant!
2007-10-02 16:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by GrowingMama 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yup lol, it's called hormones.. they are raging. Everyone deals with them differently, but try not to alienate him cause yuo'll need his help.. especially when the " I don't feel like getting off the couch but I'm starving" part kicks in..
good luck and congrats
2007-10-02 16:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Rae T 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋