By ex bf moved in with another woman next day after we had a fight (broke up). Is it called cheating? I had no idea when they start to see each other?
2007-10-02 15:44:16 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what a jerk !!! of course he was seing her and b..g her....
cheating liar.
you're well off without him.
good luck
2007-10-02 15:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyes 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear this. Unfortuneatley your boyfriend was seeing this other girl long before you knew anything was going on. Now if you guys just had a fight, then I would consider it cheating for him to do what he did. However you put in quotation marks "broke up" so this would mean that he is not cheating. Either way it souds like he was looking for an exuse to end the relationship anyway, so he would be free to persue this other woman unfettered.
A similar situation happened to me so I definatley feel for you. good luck.
2007-10-02 15:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you...10? hell no thats not cheating. you've been traded in. now lets get real and analyze this, did you kick him out of the house and he turned to a friend for help and a roof, are you some sort of over controlling child that thinks you own the world...look...you called him an "ex bf" and said "broke up"
does it really matter now...grow up, get over yourself and **move the f u c k on...your just looking for a reason for blame, to satisfy your own egotistical, self righteous ideas about the relationship. what he does now is no longer your business. but remember, if she IS only a friend helping another, and you run around making accusations, your gonna prove your as childish as you sound.!!!
2007-10-02 16:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by ca_ruff 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a believer that a person does not just find a woman to move into with in one day. There was a relationship going on before he quit with you. He made a decision to leave you for some he thought was a better arrangement and had more to offer him. Sorry but he was not actually cheating . He was helping himself to double trouble.
2007-10-02 15:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its not called cheating anymore because you two are broken up... but it does look like he was cheating on you... what a coincidence that out of nowhere the next day he moves in w/ another chick... not a good move but you know what? Things happen for a reason, and the good thing is that now he's out of your life... let that new chick put up w/ him... it wont last... he'll eventually end up cheating on her as well....
2007-10-02 15:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by N3N@ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well they obviously had a little somethin goin on if they moved in together so quickly, dontcha think??? or really wanted to do somethin for awhile cuz.... that just seems so sudden.....but hey whatever if he can jump & move along so quickly then it is better to of discovered this now!!! sooner than later ya know?? go out and have a good time yourself...dont sit around wondering When, Where, & How....cuz you will drive yourself CRAZY!!!! obviously he aint worth it!!!
Good Luck & Take Care.....
2007-10-02 15:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by NASCAR GAL #29 FAN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely anything that the other partner would be opposed to is cheating. So, moving in the next day means that something like that had very likely happened while in the previous relationship in order to be able to move in, just like that.
2007-10-02 15:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by The Norm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To begin with take off the blinders----then open your eyes and move far away from the train wreck, do not try to reboard it. Go to your church and get actively involved in youth groups and meet young people that haave some principals and are reaching out to God to lead them into fullfilling relationships and then marriage. God has a plan for your life. Plug in.
2007-10-02 15:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was cheating on u big time how did yall break up and 1 day later he moved in with someone else he was cheating on u while yall were still in a relashonship nobody would let him move in that fast inless they had been seeing each other for a while
2007-10-02 15:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by randomness is a virtue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like cheating to me!
He would have obviously started something with her before moving in!
2007-10-02 15:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were only broken up for 1 day and he already moved in with someone else i would have to go with he cheated on you. I have heard of one night stands but they don't include moving in with that person.
2007-10-02 15:46:54 · answer #11 · answered by nypd030 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋