she realy needs help and she didnt go to school i went to her house and all she could do was cry i gave he a hug and told her the its ok but i was lieing .. also the dad is my bf !!!
2007-10-02 15:19:03 · 13 answers · asked by shemanem 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
i know now idk if she is the best person to hang out with but i just needed so stuff to tell her omg she isnt my best friend she is a friend but i think she is a
2007-10-02 15:28:10 · update #1
First of all, type so that the average American can read it. I'm sure they teach you English in school.
Damn girl! Your boyfriend got her preggers? That sucks, for one, they can both be prosecuted under your state's AoC laws, second, she might lose the child, as pregnancy at that young an age is often complicated and unpredictable.
I suggest you break up with him, tell him that he is responsible, and support your friend.
2007-10-02 15:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mashu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Break up w/ your jerk off of a boyfriend.
2. There's really nothing you can do for your "friend". You didn't help her get pregnant. Really, U can't take her to the clinic, you can't take her to the hospital, you can't give her parenting advice, you can't buy her an abortion if that's what she wants. Your friend is out of luck.
3. It bothers me when ppl say "she got herself pregnant". Oh yeah. She grew a penis and some how got a hold of enough of some dude's sperm to impregate herself. Or maybe she telekenticly lead the sperm to her egg. Chances are her and the dude were trying to pleasure themselves, not have a baby. But that doesn't make it right. She is WAY too young to be pregnant. Heck they're BOTH way to young to be having sex in the first place.
4. She doesn't sound like a such a great friend if she's willing to sleep with your boyfriend. And he's a sorry excuse for a bf if he's sleeping with your friends.
2007-10-02 22:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom what is going on today. Tell her Amanda is pregnant. Keeping a secret like that is NO GOOD. Because she is 13, she is considered a "very young" person, who cannot consent legally to having sex.
Amanda may get mad at you for talking to your mom, but you guys are 7th graders, don't own cars, and can't even take a tylenol at school without written approval from your mom and dad. Waiting weeks and weeks to talk about a pregnancy can have devastating consequences.
Also, your boyfriend is not your boyfriend. Don't have sex with him. Ever.
2007-10-02 22:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by Aubrey C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I don't know that I'd be supporting your friend or your boyfriend. I'd break up with both of them and find someone new to hang out with.
There's no sense giving you the standard lecture on teenage birth control, because having seen your friend get into trouble, you're not going to make the same mistakes, right?
Take care, honey.
If YOU need help, e-mail.
TX Mom
Debbie
2007-10-02 22:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
FORGIVE your friend - don't you think being pregnant is a big enough punishment...support her if anything as she is going through a really rough time especially being so young... dump that boyfriend of yours as i'm sure you don't deserve a 2-timer and talk to your bff about her side of the story, i am pretty sure she is REALLY sorry about having sex with your boyfriend...
2007-10-03 00:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you have a problem there,
well if she doesnt want the baby, she can put it up for addoption. or get a c section. the best way to go
but she shouldent be having sex at the young of age!! its only right if you are 18 and older!! dont be geting pregnant if you dont want to be
dont even be having sex if you dont want a baby! cause they turn out to be the biggest miracles of ever!
2007-10-02 22:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by ♣♥♣_Blondie_♣♥♣ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck is pregnet? Stop clogging up the Interwebz with your fail.
2007-10-02 22:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um not to judge you but u need to find some better friends and bfs who don't go sleeping eith each other behind ur back you need to be their to talk to you r"friend" and i am sooooooooooo sorry this horrible thing happened to you (i know what you r thinking) but u have a horrible "friend" and you were dating someone horrible and they got together and did some thing horrible
2007-10-02 23:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a joke? your best friend, whose 13 so shouldn't be having sex whatsoever, sleeps with your boyfriend,a nd you're still friends with her and the jerk is still your boyfriend?
she needs to tell her parents and work from there.
and you need to break up with your boyfriend, choose better next time, and learn from your friends' mistake and not end up pregnant at 13.
2007-10-02 22:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah Anna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, bff's don't have sex with your bf. And he's not your bf if he's having sex with your "bff".
2007-10-02 22:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋