im obsessed with getting things done i feel like theres no time to get my things done
i wanna finish masters degree in age of 26, then be a famous writer for 5 years, give 5 years for my kids marriage then re-bluid a city in asia make it the best of the best,ill raise the economic in that country set new rules make it the best and one of the strongest countries.
lets just say
college needs 6 years to accomplish my goal
writing career atleast 5 years
looking for a wife/kids 5 to 6 years
that will leave me at age of 40 . do you think i can get the last goal done by 10 years ? cause ill retire at age of 50
is somethin wrong ? somethin i need to know ?
2007-10-02 13:14:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Lets say you do three out of the 20 goals you have, are you happy now and will you be happy then or are you just living life so fast that one day you will wake up and wonder what the hell you did with your life and you are ready to retire but are still not happy??
I would totally think about living life one day at a time and enjoying every second of it because what's done is done and you may not get a second opportunity to enjoy it if you missed it the first time around.
Study, earn your degree, work, become a millionaire and hook me up when you are set for life.
Go out and have fun Homie!! Life can't be so boring that you wanna waste in on being so ambitious and greedy and lonely, because you sound very determined to not include fun in your life. Live a little, laugh a little, enjoy every second of your life. If you're 18, you sound more like 55 going on 65.
2007-10-03 14:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an idiot...! First, how are you going to accomplish being a writer when you spell like a grade schooler!? Secondly, "re-bluid (Ha ha ha ha ha, it's 'rebuild') a city in asia make it the best of the best,ill raise the economic in that country (Asia is a continent, genius, btw, don't you mean "Fix the economy" and not "raise the economic"?) set new rules make it the best and one of the strongest countries" (You JUST said it was going to be a city you would fix... Make up your mind!) Wow. That didn't make much sense - What city would this be? You are incredibly unrealistic.
Grow up! You sound like a 10 year old!
2007-10-02 20:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have a lot of goals and ambitions, but will they really make you happy. You need to become part of something greater than yourself. I used to have a long list like you, but then I found that being a servant leader was a much greater calling. I am now truly happy and don't really have a list.
BTW - I have the MA, Wife, Kids and have started a ministry to help trouble teenage girls. They are all worthwhile and wonderful, but only because they give me the opportunity to serve.
2007-10-02 20:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by A Human Bean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem very set on what you're going to do but dont forget...what if something doesnt turn out the way you wanted it to which happens...oh 99 percent of the time. You need to just live in the moment sometimes and just let things flow naturally but it's good that you have some sort of idea on what you want to do with your life.
2007-10-02 20:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by s2 xo Dana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For this you might want to be sitting down...all those dreams are great and I am sure you will fulfill them I am not saying that...but your timing may be a bit off...You've heard the phrase I am sure "Rome was not built in a day" meaning that Rome and all its splendor took many decades to complete and sadly fall in ruin in the end....follow your dreams yes but do so in bite-size portions...you are an over-achiever but also be an over-achiever in reality.
2007-10-02 20:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by caminolargo76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Talk about being optimistic!
I thought those things once, too, when I was young and naive. The world is unusually cruel and gets worse with age. No one cares about you so you must take of yourself first. Horrible to have to say this but I see it day in and day out.
2007-10-02 20:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by sirdouglas527 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your goals and heart are in the right place, but it seems you need to relax your standards a bit. Find a good career counselor, and lay out your aspirations. Be open for advice and Good Luck!
2007-10-02 20:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by brokenarrow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, something's wrong. You're trying to live in the future and paying no attention to the present. For all you know, you may not wake up tomorrow, and you need to start living today.
2007-10-02 20:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jen O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to anyone who says this is unrealistic. because its not. if you work at it. nothing is "wrong" with this plan. jusdt so long as thats all it is...a plan. you just have to remember that plans change, and you cant control everything that happens in your life. im not saying that you wont fulfill all of your goals, but you wont necesarrilly finish them all in the time that you allotted for them. just try to enjoy yourself and dont stress over the future too much because whatever happens is gonna happen.
2007-10-02 20:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by yahooanswers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was with you right up until you wanted to 're-bluid' a city in Asia.
Would you settle for napalming a city in Iran?
2007-10-02 20:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋