I Kissed a friend of mine and now i want to apologies to her, cos i think i may have made things awkward. I didn't do anything wrong, but wanna check i didn;t upset her!!
Hey
I hope ur doing well? Hopefully we can meet up at some point in the not to distant future, if u ever fancy a visit, u always have a place to stay, lol!!
Er, the reason I wrote this, and what I am putting off saying is something I need to say, cos its been bugging me loads, but is kinda embrassesing for me to say.
I know you prob have not thought twice about it, cos it prob aint a big deal, but I have been really bothered by it, I just wanna appologies for what happened at the weekend, I feel real bad.
I have been really worried that I upset, or annoyed you, and that’s the last thing I’d wanna do. I know we aint known each other long, but I really value our friendship and hope that we can stay in contact!! ‘Cos u rock!!
I hope this email doesn’t make things worse or annoy u further. Hope we are OK!
2007-10-02 11:57:27 · 8 answers · asked by Xavier W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if u recieved this what would u think/feel?
2007-10-02 11:58:02 · update #1
I think your note will only magnify the incident. Just drop it. Like you say, "I know you prob have not thought twice about it, cos it prob aint a big deal, but I have been really bothered by it."
2007-10-02 12:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no...hell, no! You didn't kiss her by accident, you meant to. You didn't do anything wrong, so don't assume you did and be all apologetic. You're back-pedaling thinking it's making you look gentlemanly, but it actually makes you look indecisive. If she didn't slap the hell out of you there and then, assume she wasn't burned up about it. Parts of your e-mail are nice, but you need to take out all of the waffling statements. Face it, she'll tell you if you're moving too fast. I mean, don't be a jerk either, but don't apologize for being attracted to her. That's what we do by design.
2007-10-02 19:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its good but u need to lose ur ock! thing try something else cuz that would just seem like u are kidding around and stuff. and yeah lose the "u have a place to stay" thing...its gonna seem to her that ur kinda dessperate for a girl and just wierd. but yeah try to act a bit more seriouse if u really want to say sorry.
2007-10-02 19:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by goobercoolgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short and snappy is the way to go, but sometimes girls like that you put effort into it to make sure that you honored her fellings...
overall its a good idea to spell everything out and to press upon how you honor the relationship between the two of you
2007-10-02 19:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by kristofor h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt say that you are sorry that you kissed you friend. i know what you are going thorough because i had a one of my best friends kiss me right on the lips. i have know my best friend a long time. and my best male friend didnt say that he was sorry becaude i told him not to say that he was sorry. when my best friend kissed me it didnt make our friendship weird. my best freind has moved away but we sitll keep in touch with each other hope that this helps you in any way possible.
2007-10-02 19:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by dkcaywood2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose the "u always have a place to stay" part n wen u start sayin why you rely sent the email shorten it a bit, otherwise fine
2007-10-02 19:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by Aidazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would feel good that u were makin a effort to make things better.
2007-10-02 19:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by hollister cutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds good...she'll probably appreciate you trying to make it better
2007-10-02 19:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋