Well, heres the problem , I have a 5 month year old baby a 22 month year old baby and i work a full time job! Im having intamicy problems with my husaband, I just dont have any disire to have sex what so every ! I used to have to have it! Whats wrong!
2007-10-02 10:34:23 · 14 answers · asked by abrit_3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NOTHINHG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hell you tired,...... that's whats wrong!
2007-10-02 10:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are tired. Take some time off from work and find a sitter. Get some very needed rest and you will feel better. I had three children under the age of 4 (when they were younger of course, they are grown now), went to school full time, and worked part time. I know exactly how you feel. I sometime wonder how I got three to begin with!
You will be fine. You just need to slow down and get some rest. Good luck honey. There are not a lot of mom's that would work as hard as you do! Bravo!!!
2007-10-02 10:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aside from the fact that there is no month year old age..you have answered your own question. a 5 year old and a 22 month old..and a full time job?? you are exhausted and somewhat in the mommy trap. Plus the worrying about it does not help any either. Take some time for yourself and as a couple..even if it doesn't lead to sex, it still helps married couples feel intimate and closer.
2007-10-02 10:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by dances with cats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are tired and stressed. Can someone watch the kids for a night so the two of you can be alone and relaxed? If so get them there. I am sure that by the time you get to bed at night you are exhausted. You cannot forget about your husband. When my husband and I are tired we agree on a quickie and that is fine with us on occasion. you have to be sure not to lose the two of you. Does he help out with the kids? If not tell him that you need more help there. I assume that you have a sitter since you work full time. Can they sit for you while you take care of your relationship? I would see. Good luck. P.S. Make sure that you are eating properly and take some vitamins. That will help some.
2007-10-02 16:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between your two young babies and a full time job, you body is too tired for anything else. Spontaneous sex is difficult at this time, you will have to plan it out. But there is hope life does get better so hang in there. Right now you are destined to pay Supermom, keep up the good work. You will just have to make time to play SuperSexy wife.
2007-10-02 10:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are tired!!! Tell your man to help out around the house if he doesn't. Have to make time for each other, find someone to keep those kids and make a date night. Even if you just stay at home on the couch and watch a movie. Spend some time with each other, its vital to keep your marriage alive.
2007-10-02 16:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by soulpipes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have a lot on your plate. But the thing is that when you become a wife and mother you have to play the balancing act, as does your hubby. You can't totally neglect your hsband, and vice versa, so you have to come up with things to get the 2 of you back in the mood. Games, role play, dress up, whatever it takes, but you've got to balance things.
2007-10-02 10:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're exhausted. It takes every energy you've got to take care of the little ones and work full time. It's not surprising that you have no desire for sex. You need a break.
2007-10-02 10:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with ya sweetie. You are tired! What helped bring me back to feeling sexy was he would come home and do some of the household stuff and take over the kids so I could catch my breath. Then I found the extra energy to rip him apart again. Tell him to help you out.......he won't regret it.
2007-10-02 10:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by mowsermae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that youre hormones change after you bear children, and 2 children a full time job plus a husband you feel like you're running a circus not an appetizer in the bedroom.
2007-10-02 14:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn! I would imagine that you are exhausted...you work outside the home and there is only 17 months between the two babies.
2007-10-02 10:40:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋