2007-10-02 10:33:39 · 30 answers · asked by lotsofluv40 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, you shouldn't.
Affairs are fundamentally dishonest things. Its your integrity that is on the line here. What is it worth to you?
2007-10-02 10:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, don't do it. affairs hurt so many people. And i think most it will hurt yourself. You will lose respect for yourself. And others that you may not think look up to you will lose respect for you. Affairs hurt children, your spouse, yourself and your family not just immediately but the effects can last a lifetime, believe me. I was cheated on a month after I gave birth to my baby girl. I have been thru hell and back. It was a terrible time. I was depressed for atleast 2 years, my husband was and still is depressed, I moved on and he regrets everything now. And hasn't let go of me. Don't do it, you can't take it back, it hurts people and things will never be the same. Try to work on your marriage and remember what you fell in love with when you fell in love with your spouse. If it can't be saved, have the respect and decensy to end it the right way for yourself and your children especially, if you have children. hope this helps..
2007-10-02 17:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you want your partner having an affair on you? I've had an affair. For awhile it was all good and I was loving it.. I was cold towards my husband, didn't want sex from him and he dind't like that, that wasn't me. We tried to work things out and he just could not get over the fact that I was with someone else. He wants a divorce, has moved out and now I love him more than anything and would give anything for him to come back to me. Think about what you might be doing before you do it.
2007-10-02 17:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by crchtnbbb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Short answer - NO.
What are you looking for in an affair? Some fun, some excitement? Just someone/something different? How do you justify the cheating? Are you a cheat by nature - a liar?
Are you willing to let go of everything you have now and chance it that there is something better out there? Are you prepared to be caught out, and never regain the trust in your relationship? Are you sure that your partner is the kind of person who would be able to forgive you for cheating? Are you willing to let your partner go? Are you that sure of their love for you? Are you willing to take that chance?
Ask yourself these questions and then ask yourself if its worth it.
If you truly don't care for your partner end the relationship BEFORE you start another, if not, don't cheat.
2007-10-02 17:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only no but HELL NO
If you have an affair just plan to end your marriage soon. Because even if she does not find out, you will feel gulity and everytime she brings anything up about cheating your going to jump on the defensive. Or you'll begin to accuse her of cheating beleive me I've seen it a hundred times before if you feel like you want to be with soemone else than break it off with your wife first. Or at least separate
2007-10-02 17:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by iampricelessru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know in your heart what the right thing to do is. Follow your head and do it for the right reasons. Maybe an affair is a good thing to spark your relationship or it could be the downfall to you whole life. Look at the whole picture and make sure it's the best decision for you. Is this person worth paying the price of ultimate bliss ?
2007-10-02 18:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No!!!! Let me tell you, I never had an affair while I was married, but when I dated a guy in high school (by the way, I am 36) I did cheat on him. Although the sex was great, I felt horrible every time I was with my boyfriend. Looking into his eyes knowing he thought I was great, killed me. I ended up telling him on my own. He didn't break up with me, but I couldn't live with the guilt. I ended the relationship and swore to my self I would never do that again. It is not fun to hurt someone that trust you. It makes you feel like crap about yourself. Don't do it. Read your Bible!! God is RIGHT!!
2007-10-02 17:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mary S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Doesn't anybody have ANY values or morals??? Why get
married in the first place???
And ... Do YOU REALLY think an affair will be O.K. if ENOUGH people on Yahoo Answers tell you YES???
2007-10-02 17:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by kjh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I could better understand you're situation if there was one, you need to explain. but if your lovemaking is as short as your question and explaination then who would want to have an affair
2007-10-02 21:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by hurtheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask us if you've already made up your mind to do so? Guess if you hate your wife so much you want to cause her the most hurt anyone could to someone, then yes, but remember, you'll have to live with it.
2007-10-02 17:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you enjoy burning in hell for eternity.
P.S. There are no affairs in Hell for you to have.
2007-10-02 18:01:33 · answer #11 · answered by Peilthetraveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋