I have a good male friend (hes 27, im 26) who I talk to everyday. He says he likes talking to me everyday.
But when I talk to him about me or anything for example, I said ''I used to do certain things when I was younger..''
..and it seems like he ignores it and he carries on with talking disregarding what I say..
Is he actually listening to me? Does he see me as a good friend?
Men please shed some light on this.
Thanks
2007-10-02 09:22:19 · 22 answers · asked by Autumn 2012 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
don't blame this on "men". I dont know why HE does it. Maybe he finds himself more interesting than he does you.
2007-10-02 09:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
Not all men are like this. Labelling or stereotyping without knowing us all is very inconsiderate. I have always listened to my wife. I even help her with her problem with a quick solution. Even her female friends I listen too.
That would be like us men referring to all women as stuck up, materialistic gossip mongers.
I know people that have a bad experience with what they think is love and instantly say that love doesn't exist. Approach the formality from a different point of view rather than mark us all.
2007-10-02 09:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by tercentenary98 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We men use a thing called filtering...... we listen to what you say and disregard anything that is not for the better of mankind.... most of the time when the wife is droning on i just respond by saying uh hu or ummmmm or yes dear..
2007-10-02 09:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Father Jacks Drinking pal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is fault both sexes have but I agree it is men who are the most blatant. I do not know why we do this. I must also do it so i will try to improve because it is rather discourteous
2007-10-02 09:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by Scouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what you are asking! I liston to my friends when thay talk to me, and I would liston to you too. But I just don't know what you are saying. LoL, just being a guy.
2007-10-02 09:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by denny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not really listening to you, wants to talk more than he wants to listen. Doesn't think you have much to say...
2007-10-02 09:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl but it seems he likes u listening 2 him
2007-10-02 09:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by juciylucy87 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
SOME men can be a bit like dogs. They pick out the words they want to here or understand. For example:
"....football.....pub.....sex.."
LOL I knew that would get a thumbs down. I'm just surprised it's not more.
2007-10-02 09:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it sounds like he's avoiding talking about his past, try asking him directly about when he was younger.
2007-10-02 09:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Rupert the gardener 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is ignoring what you say because he is not listening to you.at a guess i would say that he is too busy thinking of wot to say to impress you - he's interested but too much of a berk. run girl.....
2007-10-02 09:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by tazzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be egotistical and only wants to talk and hear about himself
2007-10-02 09:26:45 · answer #11 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋