can you think of anything to help me stop missing her i keep crying and it isnt very good when i am in the middle of a lesson
PLEASE HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-02 08:16:12 · 15 answers · asked by lotti brockie 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Aww! Bless you!
Right, here is the thing. You miss her because you aren't going to see her for a long time but, most of the time it is not seeing of talking to the person that you miss. So, arrange a webcam/phone/msn chat that you can look forward to everyday or every other. That way you won't feel as sad that she has left you as she will be just a few moment away via technology.
Remember to arrange a time to talk and involve the family. Also, maybe you could go into her room ( if she has anything left there) and take something that was very close to her e.g. a bear, blanket (hehe that's my one) or a piece of silk ( my sister's).
Good Luck !
2007-10-02 09:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm at university right now as are all of my friends. Given they're not my siblings but we keep in touch. We call each other and we email each other so we don't miss each other as much and we have plans for when we're on holiday together so that we have something to look forward to. Don't think of your sister as being gone, she'll still visit and talk to you. You're still sisters nothing will change that and she wouldn't want you to be sad. If nothing else be happy because that's what she would want of you.
2007-10-02 08:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by kiki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lucky devil, you live in the age of E-mail, telephones and personal letters. Why can't you write to her real frequently -- even several times a day if needed? Does she love you with the same intensity? If yes, she'll respond to every single message you send her.
And why can't you get to the university town rather frequently to see her? She does WANT you to visit often, doesn't she?
Are you telling us everything about the relationship? I'm beginning to wonder.
2007-10-02 08:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by SaturnMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww you poor thing, I'm sure she really misses you too sweetheart!! If I were you I'd try not to think about it too much but make the most of the time you have with her and try and phone her sometimes just say how much you miss her, how much she means to you and how much you love her. I'm sure that you'll be OK just try and be happy I know it's hard but trust me things will be fine
Take care,
And don't worry
2007-10-02 08:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand that once you do no longer see somebody as plenty, there is purely this awkward empty area. yet with sisters, you adult males will continually proceed to be the comparable, a great way away or close. call her oftentimes, deliver her emails, ask how she's doing. once you're unhappy, purely think of appropriate to the chuffed cases which you shared jointly, have faith me, it helps plenty. i wish which you will triumph over this unhappiness and this might all artwork out.
2016-11-07 01:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by lizarraga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m sure she would be very happy too think you miss her so much but she wouldn't want it too affect your studies.
If I were you i would write to her often .Its always nice sending letters and receiving them also ,You could send her little pictures and Nick naks and telephone her.
Maybe if she has a computer available to her you could both chat on a web cam or via messenger and remember 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'
Don't worry be happy :)
2007-10-02 08:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by Wiggly_pumpkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your sister have a computer in her dorm?
I talked a lot to my little brother through AIM or Hotmail messenger, almost everyday. Also, I tried to talk to him on the phone when I could. Eventually you'll get used to her being far away, just remember she is coming back for holidays and breaks, so you'll still get to see her!
2007-10-02 08:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by MD Student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two sisters and it is really odd at first when you split off after years of living together. We used to send each other parcels. We'd make tapes (burn CD's these days i suppose) and put in treats like bath stuff and lottery tickets and write letters-really makes your day when you recieve one!
2007-10-02 08:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by Weas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww you must really love her. i miss sis but i think we got to get on with our life's. i used to stay up at night and watch my little sis sleep it was so peace full cried a few time cos i knew i was going to leave her and i knew she was gonna have a hard time. i just wish i could of took her with me :-)
2007-10-02 08:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by shell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its sad, but you have to think along the lines that it will be good for her and she probably misses not only you but home too x
2007-10-02 08:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by flicky23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋