2007-10-02 08:14:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That, my Darling, is a very profound question and you may have hit the nail squarely on the head. Perhaps instead of being the person they wish to find, all those folks out there are simply following their own footprints in the snow.
If they'd change their own behaviors and become what they wish others to be, then maybe they'd find what they're looking for.
Well done. Well done indeed.
2007-10-02 08:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think it's easier to think that you ARE the right person in everyday life...just because that's your reality. But when you're out there looking for others, you're going to be more demanding in what you look for. "Oh, I don't want someone who drinks too much...but I also don't want someone who doesn't drink at all." So what defines drinking "just enough"? Usually the amount you drink yourself.
I think we're all sort of looking for someone who doesn't take "work" in a relationship, but the truth of the matter is, no matter how "perfect" the other person is, there will always need to be some work done on the relationship.
2007-10-02 15:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good point....everyone wants that perfect man/woman. Why not just try and work on yourself first, and make sure that your the kind of person that someone would want to spend the rest of their life with, be a kind, considerate, not moody, or self centered, not possessive, or demanding, couples have to give each other their own space.....just try and be an over all decent person.....if more people worked on that there wouldn't be so many divorce or lonely people out there !!! This is just my opinion...others may feel differently !!! bye.
2007-10-02 15:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by chessmaster1018 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a great question. I think in some element that may be true, but compatibility is a factor, I am who I am and while I can make some adaptions, any person I get with would have to be the "right" person.
Although I'm already married LOL.
2007-10-02 15:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What a very good question. Never thought about it that way before. I think you are the right person.
2007-10-02 15:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by greenfingers thumbs up. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think too many people are looking for perfection, which doesn't exist. They set impossible standards for others while easily ignoring their own flaws which is hypocritical and irritating.
They usually end up lonely old people because nobody could ever live up to their expectations.
2007-10-02 15:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-10-02 15:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by carpathian3030 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I thought I was the right person for someone. It turned out it was all wrong. So, I decided to be right for myself. After all, I love me, I found me in the end :-)
2007-10-02 15:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree, if all is right within a person, then the right person will naturally come to them.
2007-10-02 15:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lucky S 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I like the way your mind works.
In between occasional lapses, I always strive to be a good person.
2007-10-02 15:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋