2007-10-02 08:05:52 · 33 answers · asked by ×Charmz× 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
What an amazing question.... there are times when someone just does not have it in them to open up with others. I am not one to judge people for what they think or what they believe in, however, I think that we are all put here for more than to just work 50 hours a week and be alone. I think that within each of us, is a feeling and emotion that will allow us to be loved and in return, love another. However, our conditions and circumstances are all unique and beliefs change.
So here is what I know. I know that if we knew the path life took, we would have reached our destination some time ago. We seek refuge in those compassionate of our beliefs. Placed in this world, looking for love. To make us love the person they make us dream we are. To hold us when all of our dreams are waking up and show us that the reality isn't so bad. Special people walk in and out of our lives, changing them, changing us. Distance and time are things we lack, long for and fight to grasp. People say we leave lovers behind, but what they don't understand is that this one way road we live, is circular.
I don't think a person can go through life without falling in love. It is just something we are meant to have happen. Why are we given the gift of tears and sadness, the gift of happiness and laughter, the gift of giving and receiving. For if not for the purpose of love, then for what??
2007-10-02 08:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think it is. I thought I was in love in my past but after meeting the real love of my life this last year, I realize for the first time what true love is and what really being in love is all about for the first time. If a person isn't lovable or selfish it makes it more difficult for someone to fall in love with you. I am happier than I've ever bee now that I'm with the woman of my dreams and the love of my life.
2007-10-02 08:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's possible--but not probable. It seems all the people I know --even ones who never married--have had loving feelings at one time or another toward someone. I think we fall in love to varying degrees and it's what we do about it that matters. I have found the one true love of my life at the age of 52. Who would have thought that was possible? lol.
2007-10-02 09:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by girlnamedmaria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The scenario that your question is founded on MAY be a possibility for a WOMAN. Women tend to be moved by what they HEAR,,,but MEN are moved by what they SEE. Men are subjected to the visual bombardments of beautiful women on a daily basis.Everywhere we go we see PRETTY GIRLS!Women however are often spared the hearing of most things that most men might have to say.This gives women an "upper hand" in the areas of "falling in love",and even in casual attractions. I think that men "fall in love" on a DAILY basis,,,sometimes even on an HOURLY basis. Your question is about "a person" never falling in love for their "whole life".I have just answered the male side of this question. NO! It is NOT possible for a MAN to do this,,,,UNLESS that man happens to be GAY.I do not want to address the GAY issues here and now.A woman might be able to go a part of the way through her life without ever falling in love.I do not believe that any "normal" woman who is not a lesbian ,,,can go through her"WHOLE LIFE" without ever falling in love with ANY man,,,unless she were living her life on an island with only women(who were NOT pregnant with any MALE children)! Every woman that lives her life in a normal social arena will be subjected to the WORDS of men! This will most certainly lead to her "falling in love" with at least ONE of those men that she is HEARING. Generally it will be a social leader of some type,such as a pastor or a celebrity or a political person.The "love" that she finds MAY or MAY NOT lead her into any FURTHUR real relationship with this man.Women possess a powerful "force" deep inside of their hearts that causes them to NEED to both love and to be loved! THIS "NEED" that women have inside of therm is,,,in my opinion,,one of the true DIFFERIENTIAL points that cause a woman to be a WOMAN".Men are driven by the "copulatory imperritive",,,which is totally absent in females.THEREFORE MY ANSWER IS 100%,,,NO!
2007-10-02 08:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by wayne_burdeshaw 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends. "Falling" in love is usually an emotion brought upon by unreality, and immaturity. Truely being in love with someone require that emotion to be mutual from the other person. So, in essence it is true to never have love. Usually those people have some kind of psycholigical block, not being able to emotionally gel with others, and not being able to truely get to know people..
2007-10-02 08:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that there are people out there that haven't fallen in love once. I just find it to be a really sad thought becuz being in Love is such an amazing thing that I feel everyone should have the chance to experience.
2007-10-02 08:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by ☆ Heavenly ☆ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well they'd have to live shut off from over people during that time. After all, love's a natural emotion, and there isn't much you can do to control it without lying.
2007-10-02 08:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tigris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-10-02 08:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by carpathian3030 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how many people fell in Love Canal, New York while they were cleaning out the contamination!
2007-10-02 08:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the cartoonist Robert Crumb had a brother that never fell in love, or if he did, it wasn't reciprocated. He committed suicide during or shortly after the filming of the documentary "Crumb".
2007-10-02 08:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋