What do you do if you think someone is cheating and you are expecting your second child from them ????

Question

I feel like my baby father is cheating on me but I have no prove AND i AM PREGNANT WITH HIS SECOUND CHILD. WHAT SHOULD i DO ??

Answer 1

buy a dog and teach it to bite the baby's father in the nuggets

Answer 2

You could ask him, but he'd probably deny it. Start snooping, dear, because I was in the exact same situation - pregnant with second child and found out husband had a girlfriend. He started the affair right after I found out I was pregnant. Yes, it was a planned pregnancy so I don't understand why he flipped out so bad. He moved in with her when I was 5 months along. Once she took all his money, that relationship was over. I filed for divorce and got a place of my own and worked overtime to make ends meet. Before the court date, my husband realized how wrong he'd been and went to counseling. We got back together when our daughter was 8 months old. For the most part our relationship is better than before, but I have major trust issues (duh!).

So become a super-sleuth, put spyware on the computer so you can see his emails, follow him if you have to - I did and I videotaped his car at his girlfriend's and taped conversations we had where he would admit to it. If he is cheating, he will look like the biggest a$$hole in the world.

Answer 3

Talk to him about what you are feeling. COMMUNICATION is the only thing that will make your relationship work. You also need to think about WHY you feel he is cheating on you. I had the same feeling with my husband. I then found out he did cheat on me once at a party after drinking a bit too much. I told him I can forgive but never forget BUT if the girl he cheated on me with showed up at our door saying she was pregnant, he would have to go threw the courts to see his child. Dont play games with him. Be up front. Good luck and I hope (for the sake of your children) that you're wrong.

Answer 4

If you don't know for sure , then don't go by that .
You need proof .
and don't stress yourself out .
When your pregnant you are a little bit more insecure .
Believe me I'm going through it .
So like I told him
If he thinks he can do any better go for it
and if hes gonna cheat go for it .
I told him though that you will only see your son every other weekend or when I feel like it ..

I'm not going to be cheated on and neither should you .
But if hes gonna do it ,, it is bound to happen.
Just when you find out get rid of him .
You can do better...

Don't guys make you sick?

Answer 5

♥ This is always a tough situation when children are involved. Have there been signs of him cheating? What is it that makes you suspect him? You could try to get ahold of his phone or email password to see if there is any indication that he may be being unfaithful. Otherwise if you feel that strongly that he is then most likely he is... just pack up and leave thats all you can do. Good Luck!

Answer 6

well that's just a feeling and u will need proof before u do anything if he cheating u must notice some difference maybe strange behavior,strange phone calls,cause a simple thing as a cell phone can help just monitor his activity.If he is cheating u need to leave him alone cause it is very unfair that u having his baby and he cheats when he should be dedicating his time ,effort,love and everything else to ya'll family

Answer 7

What makes you think he is cheating on you? If you are that worried about it, try talking with him first. Don't jump to conclusions. You are pregnant and very emotional. You don't want to get stressed because it is not good for the baby. Concentrate on that for now.

Answer 8

First make sure it true before you drive yourself crazy. Maybe you are feeling this way cause you are pregnant. Then if it's true remember children are the one who suffer when a parent is in an unhappy marriage.

Answer 9

Why do you think he is cheating?
Has he cheated before?
It might just be hormones in over drive (I was WAY parinoid my DH would cheat on me when I was pregnant with my first..even though he had never cheated).

Calmly bring it up to him, express your worries and go from there. Don't straight up attack..expecially if you have no proof.

Answer 10

You can't accuse him of cheating without proof. Is it that you're stuck with one toddler,expecting another and are indoors while he's out. If you are in that situation,you start to imagine all sorts of scenarios. Tell him about your fears and hopefully he'll understand.

Answer 11

I don't know why you think he is cheating, but you should make sure you know for sure before doing anything drastic. You need to catch him in a lie or just ask him.

good luck!