husband and i divorced, only to get back together after major threrapist sessions.
next month i will be going to visit my ex sis in law,she turned her nose up at me way before the divorce was over. this visit is for my man and will be topped off with a romantic few days up in gatlinburg alone.
while at the sis's house we will only visit sleeping in a local motel. during the divorce the ole hussy showed her colors and i have no use for her. how can i fake it, have any of you been faced with the ex' n laws, who bad mouthed ya at one point? how can i fake it? what do i say hey you old B, bet ya never thought i would be back? geez i do not want to do this but must.help advice anyone
2007-10-02 04:10:17 · 6 answers · asked by Shari 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes family members feel they have to take sides during a divorce. She was only standing up for her brother. Why not HONESTLY give her a fresh start and forgive?
2007-10-02 04:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should :
1. Keep the visit as short as possible
2. Maybe all go out for dinner, bowling, anything entertaining- much less likely to be a scene in public.
3. Try to put it behind you if possible.Sure she showed her true colors, but if you are serious about the marriage, you will have to be civil to the sil. Be fake nice if you need to.
4. Remember its just for while, then its fun time alone with your guy.
good-luck.
2007-10-02 11:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by undone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you end up in the room alone with her give her a ear full tell her to kiss your *** and to stay out of your way or next time you will put your foot up her *** tell her if she sticks her nose in your business again you will give her two black eyes and when hubby comes back in the room make a polite excuse to leave and hug her good by like you're the best of friends that way if there is a blowup she looks like the bad one.
2007-10-02 11:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that she is going to be catty toward you, then don't go, stay in the hotel or take in some sights while he is visiting. just because he is visiting his family, it doesn't mean that they have the right to treat you badly or that you have to take it. try it out first, go over with him and if she is still acting this way, take the car and tell him to call when he is ready to leave.
2007-10-02 11:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you're husband loves you, he will take care of it...if he doesn't...you need more therapy sessions!
2007-10-02 11:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by survivor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD LUCK GIRL..GLAD IT ISN'T ME...
2007-10-02 11:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by wenwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋