she was my best friend, we have around 4 years of friendship , but the other day we all went to the beach and she told nasty ugly things to my sister about me.she asked her how i behaved at school and she said that i had anger outbursts , and that the only people i talked to were her and other of my friends and that when i got angry i never called her.WHICH IS TOTALLY NOT TRUE.in the first place the anger outburst thingy only happened a few times , she know i live with really overprotective family and that i dont have it easy as she does , which sometimes make me rebellious, but i never took it out on her (that i only talked to her and the other girl during high school) how the hell she thinks she had control over the ppl i talked to? i had more friends but she never got to know them since we all had a different schedule.and i b4 this i was the one keeping the relationship alive , i was the one who called her because she never dialed my number to know about me.she calls herself a christian who goes to church every Friday and sometimes Sundays and it amazes me that SHE STILL HAVENT CALL TO SAY “IM SORRY” what do you think I should do let her alone , or call her?
2007-10-02 04:09:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that if she is talking about you like that especially to your sister then that isn't right at all. a best friend shouldn't do that at all. if you really wanna fix things between her call her up and say how hurt you are for her talking about you like that. If she doesn't understand and she gets mad or anything like that then you just have to move on. some friends don't last forever even if they are your best friends. make you effort and if she doesn't want to make any effort back then you just gotta stop being friends with her and move on. there are much better friends out there who can treat u better.
2007-10-02 04:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by iloveyou6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very sad. Even more sad because she claims to be christian. I hope you realize though that not all who claim to be such are saying the truth. Cuz I have very good Christian friends. They are loyal and are good to me. This friend of yours seems to be not the type of person you should hang around with. Has she done this to you before? If it has been a long time since this happened, it might be a good idea to call her first. Don't do it to try to get in with a fight with her or demand for her to say sorry, or blaming her and stuff. Let her tell her side of the story and then tell her how you feel. If she still doesn't apologize well hey maybe it's time to move on. But for me, I go with the do unto others what you would like them do unto you policy. Forgive her anyway. Don't keep a grudge.
2007-10-02 11:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by evergreen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL HER ON IT!!!!!! IF your truly friends never, ever, ever, never let things go unspoken. If you over-head this, you should of said something. IF your sister told you this, you should of called your friend up RIGHT THEN, to confront her. Thats the test of friendship, thats the truth behind the bond, you should never, ever, ever let things go unspoken, NEVER!!! I can't say that enough, never let her say something and you not say something you NEED to say back. SO GO TALK TO HER!!!! Test that friendship, thats what its there for, you'll be more honest with your friend then you ever will your husban, well unless you do it right, but....
2007-10-02 11:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not sound like a true friend. Any relationship is 50-50, freindship or otherwise. Don't hold resentment and forgive her, but don't ever forget what she said either. Life is full of lessons, learn from them.
2007-10-02 11:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be the bigger person and call her. Maybe she wnats to call you but is afraid of your reaction towards her. Some people just saying those two words can be so difficult.
if she truelly is your bf then it won't take much for her to apologies.
2007-10-02 11:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by heartbroken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, confront her, ask her if she's having any problems which she seems to be putting out on you.
If there is no such problem then she obviously doesnt care about you. you dont have to be a helpless leech. just drop her and get on with your life
2007-10-02 11:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny Joanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 10 yrs from now you will forget about this.
I think you are stressing too much.
Get off of Yahoo
Call her
Explain how you feel.
See what she has to say
If she apologizes, great.
If not...forgive her and move on
You deserve better friends.
2007-10-02 11:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by perko23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok......if she said such nasty things about you behind ur back then i doubt that shes your real friend.....
dont ring her.......just send her a letter.....explaining how you feel about all this....
if she sees her mistake then great....shes not as insensitive as you have written
but if not.....then just forget about her and move on.....grouching about her will only waste your good time
2007-10-02 11:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by ~fire and brimstone~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋