I just recently got married... I love my husband dearly! But I am having a problem... everytime we have sex and I have an orgasm I just want to cry. It doesn't hurt or anything... I just can't control myself I just start crying and it kind of ruins our time together. I think it is really starting to bother him because he feels like he is hurting me or something but that isn't the case. Is this a normal thing or what?
2007-10-02 04:02:55 · 13 answers · asked by Help??? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You love your husband deeply and you must be having fantastic sex. For some women, those two combined things may cause crying during orgasm. Don't worry about it!
2007-10-02 04:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by luv2ridebarebak 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've had times when I've just cried after an amazing orgasm. It doesn't happen everytime however, it's a feeling of being totally overwhelmed with feelings of a love so deep, it's hard to put into words.
Is this what you're feeling? If you think it's something else, maybe you should consult your doctor.
Good luck. xo
2007-10-02 04:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Orgasm's are release and sometimes we express that release by crying. Tell your husband you have no control over it, its not about him or his performance and more than likely these are tears of joy. Men don't deal well with crying, you are going to have to patient with him, and make sure he understands you are crying in happiness. It'll pass, thank goodness.
2007-10-02 04:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like most have said it is a release of many emotions and not necessarily a bad thing. Be very open about it with him by letting him know why you do this and that it's a compliment to his performance!!
2007-10-02 06:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once try to laugh after cumming :))
I think your soul is somehow more dramatic than the average.
Think of that how frequently you are laughing or being serious during the normal day time. Maybe you can change your habit.
2007-10-02 04:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you cry? Are you overwhelmed by the emotions? Is it because it feels so good? Tears aren't always a bad thing. I cry at weddings because I remember how happy I was on my wedding day. They may be sappy but happy tears are good.
2007-10-02 04:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Saphira 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your in love, it happens to a lot of people. Just realize he is your the rest of your life and enjoy the orgasms he giving you, obviously he is doing something right!
2007-10-02 04:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by alichs2002 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have heard that is normal...hm just talk to your hubby about it tell him you feel so safe and good that you are not only really enjoying your self you are just overcome with appreciation! Make him your hero and make sure he knows you are really happy with what he is doing
2007-10-02 04:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by just duky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of sweet; my ex-wife used to do that when we were newlyweds and yes, it was unsettling until I figured out where she was coming from emotionally,then it was cool because it was "our thing". I wouldn't worry about it; just talk openly about it as you feel so inclined.
2007-10-02 04:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Contribute it to a rushed release of hormones.
2007-10-05 17:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋