he never says he loves me but whenever i ask him he says yes he does. why does he not says by himself. why needs me to ask him. help????????????
2007-10-02 02:08:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Life is about rights and responsibilities. You don't have a right to a perfect husband but you have a responsibilty to be the best wife you can. I pray that God will make my marriage stronger, by changing me first.....
2007-10-03 02:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, talk with him and tell him how you feel (without getting into an argument). Let him know that you have needs (for his attentiveness) that aren't being met. Pick one thing that he loves to do. Like, if he likes golf and you don't. Tell him that for every time he gives you what you need (his attention and love) you will give him a free certificate to cash in whenever he wants, and you will go golfing with him (OR whatever it is he loves to do and has a difficult time talking you into).
Do you get the picture? It could be anything that he likes; even physical pleasure.
This way, as he begins to give you attention and get these "favors" he will get in the habit of giving you exactly what you want from him.
Good Luck.
2007-10-02 02:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
organic failures take place because of the fact we broke the earth. The flood of Noah's day thoroughly replaced each thing, and each earthquake and twister is an aftershock of that great cataclysm. Human failures take place no longer because of the fact God would not intrude (He does, until eventually we extremely tell Him to no longer--which we've been doing plenty these days), yet because of the fact we don't intrude. If each human on the face of the planet lived by ability of the golden rule and practiced loving their neighbor, floods, earthquakes, fires and storms could be mere scrapes and bruises from which we'd consistently bounce back better than until eventually now.
2016-10-05 23:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell my wife at least 10 time a day...really! I love her so much and if I didn't tell her so much (I know this sounds daft) but I would feel as if I was letting her down. Having said that though...whenever I say the magic words all she says is "I love you too" but at the end of the day...who cares! I know she loves me. So, don't worry hun...he loves ya!
2007-10-02 05:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mushroom Number 9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are just like that. My fiance is, but I know he loves me so I am ok with that. I don't say it very often either because I feel like when you say it too often, then it becomes generic, not special anymore like Hello or Goodbye.
On the very few occasions my fiance has said I love you, it makes it really special.
I know he loves me by his actions. So I don't worry about it.
2007-10-02 05:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really sorry to hear that, its hard but im not quite sure as to why you marry someone who doesnt say "i love you". Its not a happy marriage if you're not in love i mean marriages cannot be convenience they have to be about caring, passion, working together as a couple. you cannot make someone love you back but you shouldnt enter marriage unless you want matrimony. i'd say either speak to your husband how unhappy hes making you or see a marriage guidance counsellor.
2007-10-02 02:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by a beautiful lie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you told him you would like him to voluntarily tell you so now and again without having to ask him in the first place. It might be as simple as that ? Good luck.
2007-10-02 02:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Londoner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have someone who is really caring and loving and you think you have a problem? you should count your lucky stars girl and dont push him. a lot of men have a hard time saying what they feel. but as long as he shows you be happy.
2007-10-02 02:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there are guys who usually have a hard time being expressive of their emotions. not that they dont wanna say it, but at times, its in their nature. mostly, in runs in conflict with the ladies nature of being able to hear it verbally. but if you think that he really loves you, be glad. that's a rarity. =)
2007-10-02 02:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by The Game 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know he loves you an thats what matters. my ex used to tell me abouth 10 times a day he loved me. the phrase then became worthless almost like 'how's the weather'.
my new partner tells me once in a bluemoon but i know he loves me and when he tells me it's real special
2007-10-02 02:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by nicola b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋