2007-10-02 02:06:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2007-10-02 02:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by idiotwhowantstolearn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't expect it to happen overnight.
2. Try changing your appearance. I've no idea what you look like - you may look amazing - but a change of clothes can help you to look confident, even if you're not.
3. An often used phrase is "fake it until you make it". ie, try to act in a way that a confident person would. Eventually this will become second nature to you.
4. Buy Paul McKenna's book on Self Confidence. You will be able to read through it in one sitting and it will make you feel a lot better about yourself.
5. If you are aware of any barriers, try to overcome these. It may not feel like it's working straight away and it may be a little bit uncomfortable but it will pay off in the long run. As an example, I absolutely hate speaking on the telephone. A position for a help desk operator came up in my office so I applied. I'm now working for most of my day on the telephones. Sometimes I feel awkward but I know that my self confidence is building because of it.
6. Don't expect it to happen overnight. - I know that was my first tip but its worth repeating. Its never going to happen instantly but don't give up.
2007-10-02 02:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have it already, all you need do is use it. Generally a lack of confidence is as a result of bad self-talk, reinforcing the negative and not trying to turn it into something positive. Focus on what's good, not the bad and soon you'll be enjoying the fruits of confidence. Strangely we humans seem quite happy to dwell on the bad thoughts and reluctant to embrace the good thoughts. So, work on turning as much as you can into positive messages and everything will follow suite, guaranteed!
I hope jose d means 'wipe it out', not whip it out... sure you need confidence then, but wow...
2007-10-02 02:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by Woody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Shyness can cause lack of self-confidence go where your age group are around you make a point of meeting everyone talk about your hobby's and past-times likes and dislikes also to what they say and make conversation about them as they will listen more keenly as you build up their ego.When meeting people be it tinker tailor etc shake hands greet them with a smile talk to their eyes,Above all remember their names as upon meeting again Hello Fred hand out for a welcome gives them a sign of confidence, over a period of time you will it have it's rewards.
2007-10-02 02:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to the gym gives me confidence. Its easy to approach a girl if you know she already likes you . Try learning body language.
2007-10-02 02:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by tony s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woody is offering good advice. Before any challenging situation, such as an interview, date, exam etc, just take time to think through the situation and imagine yourself doing really well. This technique really can help.
2007-10-02 02:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by jamesawild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn karate or kung-fu which increases your self-defence and self-confidence.
2007-10-02 02:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Five "P"s .. Prior Planning Prevents Poor Performance.. so at least make an effort..or better yet do your best always.. i know you can pull it off ^_^ godbless
2007-10-02 02:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes from within knowing who you are, what you are and understanding and valuing yourself. if you do this your confidence will be good and so will everything else.
Think posstive about yourself all your good points and understand your bad ones.
2007-10-02 02:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by momof3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your hair done maybe change the style works for me when i need a confidence boost!
2007-10-02 02:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by slick chic 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't listen to the voice of doubt
2007-10-02 08:19:23 · answer #11 · answered by 132 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋