The husband has an addiction to the net. Tells wife she may not use yahoo chat but he wants it to stay in touch with his family especially his sister in a far away land. He tells wife she cannot add work friends (male). She discovers he has added a female colleague and asks him why. He says for work! They see each other five days (40 hours) a week and can email or call about work stuff if need be. What is he really doing?
2007-10-02 01:38:05 · 31 answers · asked by Mina M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hes controlling his wife.... making her have no friends, because hes got low self esteem.. most men that have this problem need to seek outside stimulation to boost their ego.... trust me get to the bottom of this now
2007-10-02 01:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might or might not be cheating on her.
But I guess from this point of view, he is.
I suggest that the wife talk to the husband openly about it. Tell him how she feels and talk about how things can be more comfortable. If he reacts negatively and shoves away the wife then we can say that he is MOST LIKELY having an affair.
Interview around the office. It is important to ask innocently, as not to sway the answers to favor what you think and to start gossip.
Hope this helps and it all works out soon. =)
2007-10-02 08:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Freeda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's back up to the part where husband tells wife she may not use Yahoo chat..... At this point, wife knocks husband upside the head with the frying pan. Problem solved.
Seriously, the husband is a control freak. If the wife allows it, shame on her!
2007-10-02 08:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is interested in another woman and tells you to stay of the yahoo chat site in case he is found out,And he is worried that you may find some else on the chat site (jealous) means - Do as i tell you not as i do
Remind him you are his marriage partner not his slave
2007-10-02 09:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like an ******. If he is cheating, why would he stop the wife from using the Internet but does so himself. I don't know but it doesn't sound like the guy is hiding anything. Guilty guys don't usually act so defiantly. Tells wife not to use it but arrogantly uses it himself? Just seems like he's a controlling ******.
2007-10-02 08:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes having an affair, sorry to say. Classic examples, you cant use Yahoo Chat because of the possibility of an accidental log in and getting messaged by the "other" person.
2007-10-02 08:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He may, or may not be cheating on her. One thing is for sure though. He is too controling. This is a bad sign. She should do herself a favor and get out of the marriage. The controlling thing is the beginning of a possible abusive relationship.
Just m opinion.
2007-10-02 08:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by mikebtt_1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to kiss my ***! Who does he think he is? What a controlling bastard. I think you need to stop making him feel like he CAN treat like that. You need to stick up to him and do what you want to do. If you want to chat and have guy work friends on your internet, then do it. Have some respect for yourself and don't let him get away with mistreating you like that.
2007-10-02 09:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by sun day 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't like to say but if i were the wife i would keep an eye on him, a very close eye. and also, he is not yher boss or parent he is her partner so i'd say put whatever contacts she wants on there, sod him, he did it too.
2007-10-02 08:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by karina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being selfish
being an a## hole
being jealous over nothing
being untrustworthy
being(acting stupid)
to sum it all up,being a poor excuse of a husband
(in my opinion)
2007-10-02 08:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by cliffordw hippiefied ol fart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋