if ur hubby wanted to watch a hard core porno w/ u? Would u feel insulted?
or
If someone has watched 1 w/ their hubby did u feel as if he enjoyed watching the girls on the video more then u?
we have watched the romance 1's b4 but never the hard core, it kinda scares me that the females on there will get him more excited then I do... What do u think? Should I watch it w/ him or not??
2007-10-02 01:17:47 · 19 answers · asked by NONAME 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know hes so not bored in bed we do everything u can think of the only 1 thing we have not done together is this
2007-10-02 01:33:18 · update #1
For any1 that does watch them do u have any suggestions on 1 that WE both would enjoy not just him??
2007-10-02 01:39:47 · update #2
U really think I'm being up-tight??
2007-10-02 01:42:19 · update #3
get over it. have fun with it. THAT is your husband-share in the fun. You are to up-tight, RELAX!
2007-10-02 01:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
It's not that the females are getting him more excited than you, it's what they're doing. Hard core sex acts will arouse any man with a healthy pulse. You might try out some of the acts you see in the movie, even if you alter them a little so they are more comfortable for you, after you watch the movie. His focus is not on the girls but the acts they are doing.
2007-10-02 09:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by meagain 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
By asking you to watch with him, he is trying to spice things up and include you in his fantasy world. That is a good thing, not a bad one!
He is going to get excited by watching the movie, mainly because most males are very susceptible to visual stimulation. It does not mean that he likes the girls in the porn more. Just that the visual experience is good for him.
Give it a shot, at best you will enjoy and have awesome sex, at worst you won't care for it and will know that you need a different thing to add spice.
2007-10-02 09:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I watched one with my ex and I swore never to do it again. I thought he loved me until I watched it then I never felt really secure again. After watching it, he kept wanting me to do what they did in the movie. He also made comments about the bodies of the young women (hey, I had two kids and in my 30's - they were maybe 20 w/ firm bodies and no stretch marks). He kept saying he wanted me to have a body like that, and if I would exercise more then I could have firmer legs like they had. When I turned the tables and told him if he did sit-ups then he could have abs like the guy in the movie he got mad and turned off the video. Things were never quite the same after that.
2007-10-02 08:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by Love being a Mom 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We've watched them together. I think the romance ones are pretty boring. Try it. We watch them naked and try to keep up with the screen. It's fun! It's very arousing for us both and honestly we don't last as long as usual......
2007-10-02 10:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't take it personally...you might enjoy it. i think your husband will see you in a different light if you like what he likes. i don't think the girls get him excited more than you but rather the thought of watching it with you.
maybe it's best if you talk to him...if you are uncomfortable about the whole idea. don't have to force yourself to go through
2007-10-02 09:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by labrin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that maybe he is wanting to explore with you.
He might be bored in bed with you and he is trying to try something different. What you need to be worried about is ..... if you don't try this he could go try it with someone else at least he is making an honest attempt to do it with you. You should be thankful for that most men are scared to attempt something new like this with their woman and just do it behind their back. I don't think you have to be worried about the other women in the video - he wants to do it with you.
2007-10-02 08:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by harleychickfatboy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you are being insecure. He will get turned on but he will be right there with you.
I watch porn with hubby all the time. He is usually begging for my favors halfway through the flick.
I make him wait....
LD
2007-10-02 09:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All men, are interested in porn. In fact if a man wasn't interested in porn I would begin to think he wasn't normal. IMen have strong sex drives, oh yeah females can have that too but usually you don't find too many females hooked on porn. So my advice is to relax, its pretty normal, he'll watch it whether you want him to or not. And if you watch it with him .. well you might have some fireworks happening!Enjoy!
2007-10-02 08:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by scooter 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I don't think my husband wants to be with those women more than he wants to be with me....it is the essence of the video....especially the ones with two girls together for him....I wish he didn't like it so much, I don't think he wants to be with anyone of them more than with me though. It seems like most guys cut their teeth on porn these days, it is a habit that they have and it is a part of their sexuality....some go over board it sounds like, however I watch it with my husband sometimes and it works for us.
2007-10-02 08:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I watch porn hard core all the time with my husband except I fast fwrd when its the girl on girl stuff...turn off. But in all honesty it turns us both on and makes things more intense... Watch it with him and enjoy it for yourself what ever you like looking at....
2007-10-02 08:26:51 · answer #11 · answered by happyslysmile 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋