I was on one side then the other I did give a written statement against her and her alienating the kids from the father and now I thought I was out of it because it has just been to much to handle I told him that and he stopped talking to me and now he tells me that I may have to appear in court to testify and its out of his hands he can't get me out of it its all his lawyers doing. I would do anything to get out of this!!!! It has taken a huge emotional hit on me if I go and see her or him its going to hurt me bad!! I just wanted to get on with my life this familiy has sucked my emotions so much I just can't handle any of it I finally started to get over things and now this, does anybody know if there is anything I can do to prevent a supenoa from going through because it hasn't yet and I need answers, please someone help!!!!
2007-10-02 01:08:03 · 10 answers · asked by Jason M 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
There isn't really much that you can do about it. Unfortunately if his lawyer thinks that the case can be won with your testimony then more than likely you will end up spending your time in court.
I know its sad, but think about it like this. When its done its done. You don't ever have to speak to either of them again.
2007-10-02 01:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that if you had information in the case that would shed light on the mother or father being a bad parent that you would want to help the children. If there is something you know or can attest to, then you should whether it's by obligation or not. If you receive a subpeona, you are required to testify regardless of what you want to do, but think about it like this: If what you say can protect those children, it is your duty to do so. And as far as your stress, you obviously can't see past your own to look at the children. They are going through so much more than you can possibly imagine.
It's not really about you. If you were willing to step up in the beginning, I have to wonder what's changed. Unless she is harassing you or he is forcing you by blackmail or threat of harm, then there shouldn't be much stress to tell teh truth. Testifying is not a big deal if you have nothing to hide.
2007-10-02 01:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Allison P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Fifth Amendment will only protect you in a criminal law matter. It cannot be used in a civil matter unless you expect your testimony will implicate you in a crime.
Under certain circumstances, you can quash a subpoena. This is a technical matter, so you will have to hire a lawyer to do it for you.
If you refuse to testify, you may be held in contempt of court.
Your testimony may be useful to either or both parties. It can possibly support the position of one party. The opposing party will use any prior inconsistent statements you have made to impeach or discredit your testimony.
My best advice is to be cooperative if you are subpoenaed. Get a good night sleep the night before the proceeding, and tell the truth.
2007-10-02 01:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 10:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand - you were just trying to help and are now sucked into this vortex!
I personally would cease all contact with both the mother and father immediately - this includes not returning calls, emails etc. including to either of their lawyers
If you get subpoenaed then you will have to testify - but starting to act difficult and reluctant now will lessen your chances they will want to call you
You will likely lose them both as friends but likely would have anyways
Good luck
2007-10-02 01:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, you haven't received a subpoena yet. All you'll do is tell the truth. Simple.It's not worth going to jail NOT to testify(if you must).
2007-10-02 01:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are subpoenaed, you must comply or face sanctions for contempt.
The fifth amendment doesn't apply unless you're asked questions whose answers may tend to incriminate YOU
2007-10-02 02:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to go. But, why were you in at the first place??
food for thought.
Maybe a lesson to learn.
2007-10-02 04:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the fifth amendment ???
2007-10-02 01:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T RECALL what you should do.
2007-10-02 08:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋