I found out last night that I have a sister I never knew about nd im in shock I knew I had 2 older sisters whom I have never met but now I have found out that I have an even older one and she has a daughter apparently I met her when I was younger why did my family hide this???
I also have 2 older brothers Ive never met but at least I knew about them
what do I do
find her?
forget her?
meet her?
2007-10-02 00:31:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How can you not know you have sisters??? And I think you should meet her and talk to her about your feelings and maybe you will become friends unless she's really unfriendly...
2007-10-02 02:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THat's really up to you ... What do you want to do? You're parents and her probably had a falling out or moved apart and you're family decided to just leave it be. Did you ask you're parents why they never mentioned this sister? If not then you should be asking them not on here asking us why. We can't read their minds. Maybe there's a reason maybe there isn't but you really need to talk to your parents.
I found out I had an older brother or sister when I was about 13. I have never bothered looking. I didn't see a point. If they want to find me they can but there's no real point to it. I don't think they want to learn that their real father is what he is and I'd personally prefer to save them from that.
But it's really up to what yu want and feel you should do.
2007-10-02 07:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Holly Cookie Starr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on how you feel about having a family of siblings. I would like to meet all of them so I would would know about my family, and find out about all the health problems they have, so I know what i have ahead of me. There is always problems about meeting siblings you never knew about, but that is up to you to work through.
2007-10-02 07:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to your parents and find out what is going on. You are naturally curious about this additional sibling, so of course you are confused. Since you have already met her earlier, I'd try to make contact with the sister.
2007-10-02 07:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by WVPV07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i reckon it would probably be good for you to meet her but only if you feel comfortable with that. at the end of the day family is the most important thing in the world so you might wanna make the most of this new family that you have found.
2007-10-02 07:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by dom c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you really want... do you think you could live the rest of your life knowing there is a part of you out there that you've never connected with ? If you do contact her and it turns out badly, then you aren't really loosing anything, and if you don't feel contacting her is the right thing, then you've lived your life so far without her, so what is the rest of it ?
2007-10-02 07:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by geonhope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try to find her and meet up for lunch.Ask her about her life and tell her about yours...
My sisters and I live in seperate towns,but we meet up every second month or so for a chat...
If she doesnt want to meet you,at least you wont have regrets later on about not trying.
2007-10-02 07:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by jancoetzee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋