I'm a girl and so is she, i could be completly wrong here but i get the feeling shes flirting with me alot, she keeps touching my face and my hair, just lots of weird sexual connotations which make me uncomfortable...ive not been friends with her for long just for a week so she could be gay i dont know.
Should i say something or are some people just weird like that.
Or am i over reacting.
2007-10-01 22:57:38 · 6 answers · asked by ❀ѕoмeтнιng aвoυт eммa 2 ҳҲ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Ҳҳ™ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Forgot to say.
I'm not a lesbian
2007-10-01 23:16:39 · update #1
Some people are very touchy and not gay at all. Some people are very personal but that doesnt say she is gay. If she is she will definately let it be known to you. I do not think you should say something at this point. You may be overreacting and you will look silly saying something if its wrong. Have patience and keep your eyes open.
2007-10-01 23:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gently mention something into a conversation while you're with her and see what her opinion is... say that someone in your family recently came out and ask her how she feels about whether or not people are born knowing they are gay or not... that will be an interesting conversation at least if you find out she isn't bi or gay... and it's just a conversation, so she probably won't read too much into it... I had a similar thing happen to me and when my cousin Adam told me he was gay I used that to figure out what the chicks deal was... turns out she was bi and she was hitting on me, so I just let her know that I don't play for both teams, just the guys... lol...
2007-10-02 07:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by geonhope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they make you uncomfortable, then let her know. When it comes to sexual harassment, gay people don't have any immunity. When a guy or girl gives me unwanted attention and I complain about it, I've had people tell me, "Oh that's different though, he's gay," or "that's different, she's a girl." Sexual harassment is sexual harassment regardless of who it comes from.
Just tell her you don't appreciate her touching you like that. If she gets angry because of it, then hey, you've only known her for a week, so what's the loss?
2007-10-02 06:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by St John the Blasphemist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm lesbian and if you are straight there's no way I would touch you in any way...lol...what would be the point? However she could like you but has no idea what to do about it. Still she could be a player and is making moves.
In summation simply tell her to stop touching you. While some people like it....others don't. You have a right to tell her to stop if it makes you uncomfortable. If she doesn't stop, drop the friendship.
2007-10-02 06:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could discreetly and gently ask her if she's gay, and gently explain why you're asking. But let me stress that discretion is very important, as she herself might not even be aware of this behaviour.
As with a guy, if you're not interested you can just say so. If she is truly your friend, she will accept this.
2007-10-02 06:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are some ppl who act like that and it doesn't mean they're into you...
pay attention to how she acts with other ppl. But even if she is a lesbian, just tell her that all you can give her is your friendship... I was in love with a friend once, I knew nothing could ever happen between us, but his friendship is enough for me.
2007-10-02 11:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Hazelnut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋