How do you deal with a friend that constantly trys to make you jealous?

Question

the point is she's totally up herself and thnks she's the most fabulous ever born!

she wont shutup about how pretty she is and how good her body looks and i just role my eyes everytime.

shes always saying how many times shes been shopping, how much shes bought (she'll ring me just to say she bought 13 shirts or some crap) or how tanned she is.

she just wont shutup!

i really want to tell her that, but she'll make my life miserable and steal my bestfriend whcih shes already started to do.

she wont shutup about how guys think shes so hot, but she has never been asked out or nething so wats her problem.


i think shes insecur, but shes always saying how inseecure this person is because they are saying mean things abuot this person, but she bitches so bad behind peoples backs.


what can i do other than roll my eyes

Answer 1

Wow, she sounds exactly like my old best friend. It makes me sick too. It's so unattractive!

Whenever my friend starts talking about herself like she's God's gift to the rest of the world, I ignore her. The other day we went to the movies and caught the bus home and she said to me 'I'm so skinny, I'm like in the 50s [50kgs] now' I just changed the subject completely and asked how one of our friends is.

She's not even skinny, or pretty or anything. But she thinks she is.

Just ignore her she must have low self esteem and she is waiting for you to tell her how amazing she looks. When she bitches tell her that you don't want to talk about it.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Doesn't sound like much of a friend, to be honest. Can you find of way to start putting some kind of distance between you and her? Someone like that I would find incredibly annoying.

Yes, she is insecure. Not only that she's a vacuum and she knows it. Obviously she isn't getting the reassurance and validation as a person she needs at home, so she's trying for it in other ways.

Answer 3

thats the exactt thing that happened to me just a few years ago at the beggining of high school!
i became good friends with my best friend, then we made new friends.
last year, two groups at our school joined. a few too many big personalities and well things werent so good.
there was one girl that kept saying she was fat and ugly, but we knew she knew she wasnt.
two people, my best friend and someone from the new gruop became clicky. they went everywhere together and there was a point where everyone went out but not me. that was a tad tight, people would say it was bitchy but i go to an all girl schoool so you should expect it.
for me that year was hell.
my best friend got told by her "new" friend that it was a joke, she couldnt take it and got upset.
basically just stay yourself and dont change i tryed and nobody noticed anyway. they began to like me for who i was
and now were all close and good friends
SO my point is that what comes round goes round and just bam, will hit them one day when it is least expected. so just go with the flow and so not get intimidated, that gives the person the satisfaction they want.
HOPE THIS HELPS!

Answer 4

Ah here we go. There are so many girls like this.
They ARE insecure, your totally right there. I had a friend like that. She was skinny, looked like lindsay lohan and always had a boyfriend. She'd always ***** at people telling them that they were jealous of her because she had a boyfriend and they didn't, or theirs wasn't as cute as hers, or they were jealous because she was super skinny whatever...I told her off one day after she screamed to me that I was jealous of her and her boyfriend, when all I told her was that she wasn't spending anytime with any of her friends. I don't know, if you don't want to deal with it, leave her alone. All of these girls who think they're hot **** are really insecure, and so they make others think they're hot in hopes they don't see the flaws they see. If your "best friend" is being stolen by this girl, is she really your best friend? Maybe try to spend more time with her, instead of this girl. But if all she does is flatter herself and act like a queen, tell her to come back to reality or your not going to be her friend anymore. With no friends around, she's going to realize what an ass she's been.
That's what happened to my "friend". I stopped pay attention to her and so did our other friends, a couple years later in high school I seen her, she had a big ass, a huge stomach, bright orange hair, obviously she realized there wasn't anyway to hide how hideous she actually was

Answer 5

So she is a flaunter and a one upper...Ignore her. When she starts going into one of her "i'm the best thing in the world" cut her off and start talking about something else.
Maybe she might get a clue and shut up. If she is stealing your bestfriends then she is NO FRIEND OF YOUR'S.

Maybe you need to say goodbye to her and find a new friend.

Answer 6

Tell her she's actin like a real *****! If she gets mad and wont talk to u no more then dont worry bout it cuz u could find waaayyy better friends that arent so self absorbed. I hate people like that! I mean y the f*ck do i care how much they shop?! U make her understand to back off and to step away from ur man!!! Wat kind of a friend is that???

Answer 7

...and you're her friend?
Are you kidding me?! I could NOT deal with
someone like that, I'm sure you have other friends that can
not be a paris hilton junior. Girls who do that aren't cute, If this girl is in like 5th through 8th she'll quickly mature time high school comes around, Don't deal with her.

You sound like there's nothing good about to be her friend? Why be her friend?

Answer 8

1.get better friends

2.ignore her (obviously you're the better person here and more mature)

3.don't hangout with her anymore if she frustrated you that much

4.talk to her about how you feel

5.when she starts talking about herself, ramble on about yourself instead (maybe she will get upset and see how rude she is being if you give her a dose of her own medicine?)

6.when she starts talking about herself, walk away

any of those things could be good. It's up to you to choose what you want to do. Good luck and I hope you find better friends that will treat you good and with respect.

Answer 9

id agree with you she is very insecure, to me she seems as though she needs that reassurance all the time. have you and your best friend thought about trying to sit down with her and say how much she is upsetting you in a non confrontational way. it wont be easy but you got to try if she is a true friend she will listen and try to stop if not she aint worth knowing. or if you dont feel comfortable sitting down with her try to write a letter.

Answer 10

try to make fun of her when she makes you feel jealous.
i have a friend, like u and every time she is like PROUD of herself. she is not even intelligent but she tries to show off. well when she shows off, i have a good laugh in front of her.