i don't know what to do:
i want to be still freiend with him after this;
but i dont like to live with him in one room;
indeed i want to live alone at my room;
and my lover is going to be my guest after 2 weeks, and he doesn't know that i am not living here alone...
and i want to be alone when my lover si coming...
but my friend (who lives here 1 month) doesn't look like is searching for new home... and he said that he didn't have enough money to go out now, but i don't have either :(
2007-10-01 20:59:01 · 8 answers · asked by Tekuari 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You've just got to be straight with him. just say to him that you do care about him but its time he moved out as your bf is cumin round. and he cant really complain as you have put up with him 4 a month
2007-10-01 21:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Diva, don't rethink your trip---you'll be making a terrible mistake not to go! (Although I'm sure that Scotland is lovely as well!) I'm an American who's visited Ireland twice, and the people are as lovely as it gets. Even the "ugly Americans" I saw in several shops, complaining to the store clerks about this and that, were treated respectfully. I found many, many people eager to speak with me, asking me questions about what state I lived in, how did I like Ireland, etc. Every single person I encountered was kind and helpful. And it's the most beautiful place I've ever had the pleasure of being. Now, the Irish people make no bones about the fact that they don't like Bush (hell, neither do I!) But they do not hold this against the American citizen. The only disrespect I got in Ireland was from a Canadian tourist. I was standing in line behind him when he ordered a pack of Marlboros; when I asked him if the shop carried American cigarettes, he very snottily replied that he only bought them because they didn't have CANADIAN ones! Yo Misty, what up GF! :)
2016-05-18 23:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him a date when he needs to be out. Tell him that your boyfriend is coming, and that he MUST be gone by the time he gets there. Tell him he will have to find someone else to put him up for a while, and that if he stays any longer it will ruin your friendship.
If he still refuses to go, it means that he doesn't care about your friendship and is just using you. In that case you will be better off without him
2007-10-01 21:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Copper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that he must be gone before your boyfrient arrives, as he is really big and gets very jealous!
If he's your friend, he's not going to be offended about you asking him nicely to leave.
2007-10-01 21:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dogsbody 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just explain your thoughts to him from your heart...but speak softly,make him understand your need...But try to be as calm as you can...And maybe he will understand and go out and will still be your friend.
After all,If he's your real friend,he will understand what you need and try to help you.
Good luck!
2007-10-01 21:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Schumi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm that happened to me for a year so one day i got so pissed i was likee just...just get out now....but were still friends lol
2007-10-01 21:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay i didnt read a word of that, but just tell him its time to go, nothing non friendly about that
2007-10-01 21:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't u think its time for him to crash elsewhere??? tell him that ur expecting some1 and that the 2of u need some privacy... alone...
2007-10-01 21:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by skeptic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋