2007-10-01 20:51:06 · 17 answers · asked by Eng6310 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sex should be everyone's personal choice. I honestly don't think it's any of my business how other people use their bodies.
On my part, I believe sex should be saved for love. I don't want to wake up regretting that one night stand, but if I have to wait for marriage I'm afraid that initial passion will wear off
2007-10-01 20:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Vae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely it should be saved!
it is a mark of how strong a person's willpower is over societies' pressure...
Give in, and it'll just show that you have'nt got enough backbone to stand against a mob...
Standing up and fighting promiscousness will just make you glow inside...
Everyone will want that kind of person, and lucky is the one that actually gets that...
Sex should be saved because marriage is sacred...
Marriage marks the start of a new life, and if sex is already a part of everyday life, there won't be a need for marriage at all...
Virginity is an uber–special thing that can only be given once, sex should be saved cause your lifelong partner is also
uber–special.
2007-10-02 04:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by shadow_clone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's personal choice. Those held back by religion best not be practicing nightly before commitment, while for those who already have their motor running it's tough to pick someone who doesn't have your passion factor.
I definitely didn't save it for marriage. I saved marriage to try and only do it once, and I wanted to know my body and how to please my partner in any way.
Unfortunately, the real issues of compatibility and issues with finances far outweighed the good sex life. That's where the focus should be.
2007-10-02 03:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you think is best. In my opinion, if a girl wants a better chance of marriage and wants to keep away from players it's the way to go.
2007-10-02 03:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Codynova 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. My take on it is if you get your first time out of the way....you then have time to actually find someone you like instead of just listening to your hormones.
Other thoughts:
Rampant casual sex can cause problems.
People can have very different sexual appetites.
If religion is what you live for...I can't help you.
2007-10-02 07:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i believe in saving it for one you love though, think about it this way, most marriages happened within a month or two of people meeting back in the time.
2007-10-02 03:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one waiting til marriage makes it more special. It makes the wedding night that much more fun and lot more fun to wait for. When you wait your discovering starts you off with fun you will always remember. My hubby and I didn't wait. Now we both wish we would have. My niece and her man waited and are so glad that they did. Besides, waiting makes it the ultimate gift for your partner knowing they are the first and the last and the only.
2007-10-02 03:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it had been like that all along, we wouldnt have HIV/AIDS, or at least it wouldnt be such a problem. because people sleep around without any obligation to the person they are sleeping with, that's caused HIV to spread so much. most religions and cultural beliefs forbid sex before marriage, because they undersand that its wrong. pity most people dont value such things anymore
2007-10-02 04:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by billius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, one is free of feeling a comparison may be made, if both partners are open minded, there is no problem, what better than to start off with a clean sheet, ( no pun intended)
2007-10-02 04:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and here's why as far as i'm concerned....So you wait till you're married to have sex....you are in love with the person years have been spent with them waiting for the day to come that you can let all inhibitions go and bang bang.Then it happens, not that great ...never gets better... do you tell the person you love so much that they suck in bed? risk destroying their ego along with introduce concern for deception into your relationship?"OH my God she thinks I suck in bed...Does that mean she's gonna or already has cheated on me and found someone to fulfill her in that respect?...No sex should be partaken in responsibly and in moderation all the way through and before marriage. so you know how to please your partner as well as yourself.
2007-10-02 03:59:34 · answer #10 · answered by punkrockboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋