i used to see pornography in the internet quite a lot
please help me
how can iget rid of this bad habbit and feel good?
2007-10-01 20:50:55 · 20 answers · asked by Ashis 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Believe that you are doing great sin and allah(God) is watching u.U will be punished greatly for doing this and allah will forgive u if u realize and promise not to do it again.
this nasty habit may cause PE problem as well.
Dont worry.Beg mercy and forgiveness to Allah(God)
God will help u...must..
As u want to leave this I believe God will forgive u..
Best wishes
2007-10-01 21:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
hi ashish
I thing u should try n take some hobby classes when u will busy doing the stuff what u like u want be able to feel to see pornography stuff
try n keep Ur self busy go out with friends get busy with writing or dancing or reading there is so many activity u can do the free time when u see that pornography thing
Do u have gf?
if yes have quality time with her go out chilled have fun or romance with her it will give u good feeling n if u will keep wacthing pornography u will be screwed soon boy
So its all in ur hand u wanna leave this bad habit u have many option leave but its up to u how u try get rid of this habit
best of luck bye
God bless you
2007-10-01 22:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by shabana o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is don't go online... hehehe...
But I know you can't do it, so better use a software that restricts you to open such sites... In the office, that helps us not to open **** during work hours...
Find some sites that would enhance and enrich your knowledge and interests...
Find wholesome online friends to discuss about anything but sex...
Sex here in the net is just a click away, so be aware of the sites you visit... Even the wholesome sites may hint some pornography, so the first instance you sense that **** is there, click CANCEL!
For my last shot, sex and pornography is not bad per se... Just don't overdo it, okey? Feel good about life... Take care and be safe!
2007-10-01 21:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by irritated_oyster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Step number one (which you're taking) is admiting that is a problem. Thats a good thing because most people dont recognize that they do have one.
Two, see a counsellor to help you set up a plan and talk about your addiction to it. The faster you get help, the better your chances of curbing your addiction. Addiction for pornography can get serious IF its not taken care of.
You've made the 1st step, so go take the 2nd.
Good luck!
2007-10-01 20:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Paramedic Girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start learning Classical Carnatic or hindusthani music from a good/knowledgeable teacher. If not interested in these, learn instrumental music or any art/hobby which you had always wanted to learn or were intersted in. In a few days/ weeks /months of doing so, you will find that you are getting less and less time for sitting before the internet and watching porno.
2007-10-02 06:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by spiritual healer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an uncle George who was addicted to not only the pictures you mentioned but the activity as well. 3 wives and 12 kids later he has vowed to remain celebate for the rest of his life and become a enuch. Sexual curiousity is normal but if it is interfering with your work or other life responsibilities I would suggest counseling or a library card to help you refocus your attention to more down to earth priorities before you act out on your mindset and end up with jail time.
2016-05-18 23:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to find alot of other activities to busy your mind and body with! You will need a good strong group of friends to support you----if you dont have a wife to walk the steps with. And please write it down to your self to read over hundreds of times a day------ All the movies is NOT Reality!!! It has alot of thought and planning, and money behind everything you see!! Real life just doesn't come close to the high you "view" in the clips!!! With God---All Things Are Possible!!!!
2007-10-02 06:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by sidney03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our Website (www.sexaddiction.com.au) can help you if you suffer with sex addiction. It's a directory of sex therapists and churches who offer programs to regain your life again. We offer also a forum for all people who are interested in the fight against **** in our society or are involved in some way.
All the best Joe P.
2007-10-04 16:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with your files on the hard drive, Delete them all.
And just avoid visiting any new sites in future. And stay alone as little as possible, because that way you will eliminate your chances to watch **** and jerk off(I dont think anyone watches **** without jacking off:)) )
2007-10-01 23:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
turn your internet off? make sure the computor is in a public area if you live with others? install a net nanny type program? all or one of the above may work.
2007-10-01 22:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by darth72au 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all have a great will power...
Engage in some other things.... Like develop ur hobbies, etc..
Have a self control...
And... Have a girl friend...
Watch them, but not to often...
2007-10-02 00:08:27 · answer #11 · answered by Vipin H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋