I don't understand, he can actually hold and erection for over 25 minutes during intercourse and yet no ejaculate. He said that he feels it, but he never rmy reaches it. It has started to really bother me, eventhought he says that is not him, i feel like im not doing my part...PLEASE HELP ????
2007-10-01 19:30:22 · 18 answers · asked by Amelia 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
That's most likely a psychological problem, and not a physical one. Women can have the same problem.
If he can ejaculate when he masturbates, then it really is all in his head. It could be a number of reasons, though.
He needs to see a psychiatrist.
2007-10-01 19:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bellicosa 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's in his head. Not being snarky, but the biggest sexual organ is the one between the ears. If his mind is not in the game then he's going to have a hard time getting it up and keeping it there. It sounds like he has some emotional baggage that he needs to work through. My suggestion is a therapist so he can discuss the problems and get it out of his system. Also don't put pressure on him to climax. Just sit back and have fun exploring each other. Between the therapy and the low stress sex he'll be fine.
2016-04-06 23:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on drinking and smoking and drugging and playing mind games. I am 60 and can have sex twice a day, every day. I dont drink, smoke, use fun street drugs or have mental problems. I've had erections and ejaculations several times every week since before I was 20. I'm sexually similar to when I was 18. No peak, no valley, just the same, all those years.
2013-10-10 14:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he ejaculate at any time? When he is alone? If not, he needs to see a doctor to see if there is something wrong with his sperm production. He may have had an injury or illness that has effected it.
Most women would think you have an perfect partner. If you are both otherwise satisfied by the sex then don't focus on this one matter other than how it is pertinent to his health.
2007-10-01 19:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ana, If both of you are bothered by this in my opinion you may suggest that he sees a Urologist. He's a Dr. of male reproductive organs. I'm reasonably certain your boyfriend with get a medical evaluation and truthful answer that will put both your minds at ease.
As another person has already stated the Doc. will need a complete drug list perscription or otherwise from your partner.
2007-10-02 03:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Country Boy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are doing your part. Does he ejaculate while masturbating? If so then have him masturbate & when he gets close to ejaculating have him insert his penis (use condoms) into your vagina. After he does this a few times he will adjust from his hand to you & should be able to get off during sex. But is 25 min long enough it may also take him longer than that consider yourself lucky to have such a lasting boyfreind
2007-10-01 19:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jeri E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him see a doctor,if you to have lots of sex then a man penis becomes less sentaive an takes longer for him to *** according to the medical books an studies,might try to refrain from having sex for an extar day or 2 see if that helps, best to see a doctor i know its embaressing but better to check an make sure everything is ok
2007-10-05 17:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men, rare, are like that. continue to enjoy beyond 25 minutes by inter changing your positions, he will ejaculate. understand him and enjoy... u are lucky consider this. there are men who ejaculate with in minutes.
2007-10-01 19:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by pali@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he do any kind of drugs or drink alot, because these are things that can cause that. i had a friend who that happened with her boyfriend and she just got frustrated every time they had sex and he was a major pot head. i don't know...maybe go to webmd.com and type in the symptoms and see if it could help.
2007-10-01 19:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by Thats what she said 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 minutes thats fast. i can do 3 hours really... well maybe he just need a little more time... try giving him a good bj...
2007-10-01 19:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋