I am contemplating whether to break it off with my bf. He's short-tempered and moody and expects me to tolerate it. I alwayls have to understand him!!! He's stressed abt money, i try to understand him but he just pushing my limit. Its just frustrating and sad.
Just now, i had informed him of my new job offer and i felt that he didn't like my new job if i take it. His mood changed and he didn't want to discuss it with me anymore. I feel like crying.
Shd i take a break?
2007-10-01 19:16:30 · 7 answers · asked by NOTurBFF!! 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Personally I feel that if you think that both of you still can salvage the relationship, then it is better for both of you to have a heart to heart talk. It is good for both of you.
Aftrer the talk, if you found that there is no point in carrying on with the relationship, then I suggest that it is better to make a clean break rather than let the relationship drag.
I always feel that as a copules, we should try to understand what our partners want and their behaviour. It is never an easy thing to do but we got to give it a try.
So give it a thought before making the decision.
2007-10-01 23:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but you don't need to tolerate his short temper and mood swings. If he is stressed out about money, then he should get a higher paying job and stop taking it out on you. Great that you got a new job offer, you should take it if you feel that it's for you. If your bf doesn't like oh well, it's your life. I think it's time for you two to take a break. Your life is as important as his and you have the right to choose. Hope things get better, but as long as he keeps stressing on money, it will never change unless he does something about it.
2007-10-01 19:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by < J > 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh my man does that too. like they get mad and they won't communicate about it and they take it out on you and make you feel guilty if you don't understand or if you disagree. If you really love him and it's not that big a problem, like you know for sure that he'll never hit you or anything like that, then i say try to work it out if you really want it to work. It's gonna be hard because he's stubborn but if he really likes you he'll start to change. I told my bf that if he keeps acting like that, it's not gonna work out and he's gonna lose me. and i especially hate how he'll get all moody, then just say i don't want to talk about it and shut down. So he's been getting better although he still does it but i don't put up with it or let him make me feel guilty. When he does that i tell him calmly how i feel and if he gets more mad i just ignore him until he's ready to calm down or apologize. i felt like breaking up with him before because he always has to be right and tolerated,like if he's a spoiled brat or something, but if it were the other way around he wouldn't put up with it, but i wanted to work it out and it's been going good. so as long as your guy is just moody, but not abusive in any way and you love him. try to work it. Oh and don't ever let him tell you what to do when it comes to your life, if you want that job, his opinion shouldn't matter, and he has to accept it if he really cares about you
2007-10-01 19:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, a Kit-Kat is just what you need. Don't let other people drag you down.
2007-10-01 19:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave....the sooner the better....he'll bring u down with him...there r too many other fish in the sea
2007-10-01 19:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk. I'd leave him.
2007-10-01 19:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard of one bad apple spoils all the apple ...........I would say bye bye and not look back
2007-10-01 19:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋