I know this guy and i like him. So i told him how i felt.. i expressed myself in any way possible but the problem is i did it annonymously..online. He doesn't know who I am. He is fine with that.. because i said i could understand if he didnt want to speak to a stranger... and he was the total opposite of that.. he actually likes the fact he doesnt kno who i am. and he getting to know my personality.........he still wants to be my friend........ we talk everyday..... about anything and everything..... and we became friends.. he told me too many personal things and i get he trust me because i could easily use that against him.. something i wouldnt do.. im gunna tell him who i am.... but i think im in it too deep.. the fact we been talkin like dis for over a month... and i dont know does the person he thinks i am matches with me... im so scared that my heart will be broken if he doesnt want to be friends afterwards.. im 19 by the way a little bit too old for this.. but what should i d0?
2007-10-01 18:44:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
just continue your friendship.
2007-10-01 18:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by clarrisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exchange pictures..if that hasn't happened already, it's a must.You both gotta be able to picture who you're talking to. I made a horrible mistake by driving 450 miles to meet someone with no self esteem who hadn't sent me an honest photo..so get right to that! Total full disclosure is the only way to proceed. If you're both not ready for that..move on...it's just a fantasy until then...and you're so young..TRY STUFF! You'll bounce back..and it's rare to get it right the first time!
2007-10-02 01:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Recital Vinyliste 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! that's crazy girl! i can't imagine how you feel...i dont know what i'd do...i'd prob be freaking out too. hmmmm...maybe if you let him know that whatever he decides about a "romatic" relationship will not change the fact that you'll keep the things he told you to yourself. and no matter what he chooses to follow through with just stay friends because he'll notice that and in time he'll realize if he needs to be with you or not. did any of that make sense? well i hope i helped somehow...
2007-10-02 01:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Thats what she said 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to be angry when he finds out, I know I would be. You either need to cease all contact with him online and try to get to know him face to face (never telling him it was you), or you need to come clean, confess everything, and tell him that the reason why you did it was because you were so scared to tell him that you liked him, then you got in too deep you couldn't turn it around. If you do the second one, you need to apologize apologize apologize.
2007-10-02 01:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by lordmisrule2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come clean and tell him. It isn't right for either of you to keep this a secret. He'll find out eventually anyway. Either something you say on the internet won't match up or something you say in person won't match up and he's bound to put two and two together.
2007-10-02 01:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kagome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've made a friend.
But if he doesn't want a relationship at the moment. Then there isn't much to do but wait!
2007-10-02 01:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes should tell him, its going to seem awkward at first because your not used to it, but once you let it out you'll feel alot better and its easier if you do it now then let it streach for a longer time
2007-10-02 01:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by k i w i ♥182 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! i totally agree, you are Way to old for this! 19? what are you thinking?
i love kiddie questions.
2007-10-02 01:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak the truth to him.
2007-10-02 05:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Y*G*L ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, just be up front with him.It may become more and it may not.. You will never know until you tell him what's on your mind...
2007-10-02 01:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by jlkauffeld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋