Me and my bf have been in a long distance relationshop for almost 2 years.We sometimes master together.Lately though im ready to go wanting to and i just dont.I didnt tell him for a long time but i have now and he has trust issues but he understands.He says if i tell him hes ok but i usually dont .I feel so bad about it.Why do i do this?Not only to him but ot myself?
2007-10-01 18:41:34 · 6 answers · asked by Bookybell 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Firstly, don't listen to those people who say get out of the long distance relationship, it's bad etc etc. They're wrong. I've been in a long distance relationship for 28 months. It is hard, but as long as you know when the next time you're going to see each other and you love each other it's good.
Long distance relationships are good (as long as you're faithful) because you can be open with the other person, you can't exactly avoid each other. My boy friend and I have the best relationship. I wouldn't have been able to talk to him about the stuff I do now if we weren't in long distance relationship. You don't have to worry about pregnancy scares either!
It is hard to be intimate together though. I'm sure you've tried the phone sex, text sex etc etc. I personally know I go through phases of not wanting to do that sort of thing at all.
You guys must be pretty close to have been together nearly 2 years, just talk to him. Be honest because he probably thinks it's him. It's worth it when you're together. I've got the most amazing boyfriend ever!
2007-10-01 21:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship are not good. You can't be with the person. You move on find someone in your who is in the same state as you.
2007-10-01 18:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Adrianne R 5 · 0⤊ 9⤋
He won't know, right? Then go ahead. It's not that big of deal. If he has trust issues, why do you want to be with him. He's probably cheating on you and doesn't trust you because he knows he cannot trust himself.
2007-10-01 18:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by Precious 7 · 1⤊ 8⤋
Long distant relationships are not healthy its time to let him go.
2 years is too long.
2007-10-01 21:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by Millie 2 · 0⤊ 8⤋
cool
2007-10-01 23:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by blank 5 · 1⤊ 5⤋
get a boyfriend not a fantasy or w weird relationship
2007-10-01 22:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by margaret d 2 · 0⤊ 9⤋