Check it out. Im Bi, but more into guys than anything, I am not out and no one suspects me to be gay so im good. I play varsity Football and am also on my schools Student council, im really confused because theres this guy on ASB who i just recently felt a strong pull for. Hes very attractive, but theres something about him that ugh....Me and him were paired together for a day and got close, i noticed hes a real touvhy feely type, but how can i tell if he is, he might be like me. but AHH! Help please
2007-10-01 17:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Talk to him, become his friend, put out little flirty feelers and try to glean his reaction. And if you guys become friends, and trust each other a bit (and he doesn't show a trend of gossipping every detail away) then maybe you can ask him about it and/or come out to him. *Shrug* Just work with it.
2007-10-01 18:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by silvrene~chan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tch. I've learned that touchy-feely honestly means nothing with guys these days. It's really maddening sometimes. I have straight friends who hug me and find any excuse in the world to touch me. One of my good guy friends hugs me and tells me he loves me, even. Gaydar is so unreliable these days.
You're closeted, so it's a tentative situation as a whole... The best advice I can give is to spend more time with him. Hang out and play video games / do whatever you guys both enjoy with free time. Get to know him better, and maybe somewhere down the road when you trust him more, you can possibly ask him about it. It's risky no matter what, but life's all about taking those risk. Good luck!
2007-10-02 01:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Devhyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gaydar is a myth, a product of wishful thinking. You know damned good and well if he is interested or not....I suspect you are fooling yourself into hoping he is. Back off or you could well be outted in school. If he is really interested, he will let you know soon enough. good luck
2007-10-02 03:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the direct method says ask him but the indirect method says have a friends night out, take him to a porn shop and ask about his preferences. 10 to 1 , he'll pick a het theme but you can comment on the gay ones and ask him opinion. Or speculate that you think someone else is gay and get his opinion on that.
good luck
2007-10-02 01:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's on the down-low too. Or you could just be over looking things because you like him and you want him to like you back. Just ask him over to study or "play" xbox, ps3 or stuff like that and see were that takes you good luck
2007-10-02 01:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by Matra 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe in gaydar
lol
maybe it does exist who knows...but i dont have one at all
2007-10-02 14:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi huh?
Get intimate with his sister, she'll know if he's gay.
;-)
2007-10-02 01:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋