WHAT do you do?
2007-10-01 17:04:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
well first of all they ARE NOT your best friend... i would confront them
2007-10-01 17:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kim S 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Ask the friend what it was that you did to cause this friend to stop treating you with the love and respect that was once a part of the relationship that the two of you had. Give the person a chance to help you become a better person. Ask the friend to treat you as they would like to be treated themselves.
2007-10-07 19:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by wayne_burdeshaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you assume this because they are talking to someone you have a problem with then it maybe they are trying to watch your back. Trying to find out if the person you don't get along with isn't up to anything. Could be that they aren't talking about you at all.
Try talking to them calmly.
2007-10-01 17:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by What's my name again? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is to confront the best friend,ask whats up.
But me, i'd just let it be, and think what did i do to deserve my own best friend saying stuff about me..and if i cant find the answer, maybe i should reconsider treating that person as my best buddy!
2007-10-01 17:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ironlung 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are they saying? Have they said the same to your face? Maybe you should think about what's being said. Otherwise, that person may not be such a good friend after all. But we need to know what they said to tell.
2007-10-01 17:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I flat out ask them about it.
The person that told me this info may be just trying to start trouble, so I would bring it to thier attention and get thier input and decide from there.
If someone did that to me, I would want a chance to explain, and I try to treat others the way i would want to be treated.
2007-10-02 12:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Ashley K. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a vicious circle of suspicion...you never truly do unless it's said to you directly. If you don't like face to face confrontation and you're positive that it's happening, then there's nothing making you be their friend..give it some distance. Then see what happens.
2007-10-01 17:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Adonis Finn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a best friend. I try not to cuz everytime someone claims to be my best friend something happens and we're not friends anymore.
2007-10-01 17:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Who is that red head??? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront them.
then when they lie to your face, make sure to let them know that you know they're lying lol.
*if they're a real friend, they'll admit to it and apologise. If they're not, they'll continue lying about it, then go off and say "do you believe she/he just asked me if i was talking about them?"......lol
*sighs* i despise back-biting, can't you tell?
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*edit* although, you should give your best friend some credit, friends sometimes fight, and it may just be his/her way of venting and not necessarily meant to be spiteful. there's a difference!
2007-10-01 17:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you know that she has been talking about you behind your back, then ask her why, then dump her as a bff
cause bff's don't do that to each other.
2007-10-09 07:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by rose01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i have the same problem. i did nothing-she is not worth my time or energy. i have wasted 20 years on her and i wont waste one minute more.
some day she will see what she lost and thats when i will giggle to myself and let her squirm.
2007-10-01 17:09:49 · answer #11 · answered by rachael 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋