I mean she is a girl with a good future. And that stupid boy ruined her life. I failed to protect her as a brother.
2007-10-01 16:58:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
To tell you the truth. My parents are blaming me because they think it's my responsibility to protect her because we are on the same school.
2007-10-01 17:10:03 · update #1
First find out if it's true!!!! She may have missed her period because she's afraid that she might be pregnant. Make sure first and than get her the help that she needs. You don't say how old the boyfriend is, if he's much older than she is than that's something that your parents have to deal with. You can't protect your sister from everything I know I had six brother's and two sisters so that was two brothers to one sister and we still had issues with our boyfriends. No one got pregnant but that was because our mother talked to us and made sure that we didn't date until we were older. Has she told your parents yet??You also have to remember if her boyfriend is her age they really didn't realize what could happen. Kids that age don't really think that she could get pregnant that young. Heck some of the boys aren't even producing sperm yet. You need to make sure of what you're worried about before you go off and find out that she's made a mistake. IF she can't go to your parents have a girl friend or other female relative take her to the nearest public health center and they should do a pregancy test for free. Make sure that they do a blood test so that it's acurate. Most of those home test are right but there can be mistakes and you don't want mistakes now. Than it's up to your sister and her parents to decide what to do if she's pregnant. IF she's not someone needs to have a serious talk about birth control before there is another scare, And don't forget if she is pregnant she had something to do with it unless she was raped. IF you got a girl pregnant would you want everyone to blame you and forget that it takes two to tango???? The same thing applies to your sister she should have said No. IF it was a real case of rape than it should be reported. But if it's a case of two young teen not really knowing what they were doing than it's up to someone to make sure that they understand the consequences of their actions. And remind them of the STD's that don't go away!!! They can be a life long sentence where that's not the case with a baby they can be put up for adoption if worse comes to worse. I know because I placed my daughter for adoption when I couldn't take care of her.
2007-10-01 17:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kathryn R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something wasn't right with her life if she is 13 and having sex in the first place. Where are the parents ? Does she have self esteem issues? I just can't fathom a 13 yr old having sex and not even having protection? That is sad and insane if this is true.
She needs counseling and so does the whole family.
2007-10-01 17:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was at fault too. Not just him. She gave it up knowing what might happen. If she really cared for her future she would have waited until marriage. Beat him up, no. Kill him, no.
I have a neighbor that blames her whole pregnancy on her husband. She says it's his fault alone. How typical of a lazy irresponsible woman to say that. If it's his fault, where as she at?
Hanging out with her whiny church mom group again.
2007-10-01 17:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by tercentenary98 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and kill the guy!!!! then after that let's see what will happen.Are you going to be satisfied kaya with the result? Know what there's nothing to be a problem about that matter, it's just a metter of acceptance!!! and you don't have to blame anyone and even your self...It's the end of the world yet for your sister.JUst face the fact that your going to be an uncle!!!!OK!!??
2007-10-01 17:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by OLSEN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what help can you be to your sister if you get yourself put in prison? And, unless she was raped, the boyfriend is not the only one responsible. Your sister needs a lot of support from you right now and help dealing with all this, and the last thing she needs is you causing more trouble.
2007-10-01 17:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes two people to make a baby, and who says you're responsible to protect her? Your sister will just end up resenting you. It sounds almost as if you're jealous, like you have a crush on your sister.
2007-10-01 17:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh yeah. I would definatly kill her lame half *** man, My sister turned 13 today its her b-day but wow I can't imagine her being preg. That will totally piss me off. Im the older sibling I gotta do what feels right and what I would feel if I was in ur shoes...
KICK THAT GUYS *** BECAUSE IT FEELS LIKE IT SHOULD BE DONE.
I'm a older sister by the way and no one messing with my sister's future. SO hellz yeah I would kick his sorry ***. He probably used her too just for sex. Man this is so ******.
2007-10-01 17:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes i would. I'm a 13 year old girl and i can't imagine devoting my life to a child right now. but it is also partly the girl's fault, she must be more careful and alert, so it is an equal thing.
2007-10-01 17:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why wasn't she on birth control since she was being so loose??? They played an equal role in the pregnancy, so they are equally to blame.~~~
2007-10-01 17:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
if some kid got my Lil sister pregnant (my sisters a year younger then yours) I would go medieval on his a$$ to the point that he wished he was dead and then tell his parents if they were sane people that kid would be grounded for the rest of his life
2007-10-01 17:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by whatnotery 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋